girlfriend temporarily moved out
My girlfriend of 3 years has moved 5 minutes down the road to her mothers house, where her grandma is "supposedly" dying of copd and enphyzema. I don't mean to sound harsh, but I say supposedly because she has been coping with this illness for years and years. It has gotten a little worse lately, and she refused to go to the dr. anymore, and as soon as she did that, my girlfriend and her mother started freaking out. The whole point behind this is... I work from 2:30pm to midnight. She works about 25 hours a week on random schedule. I barely see her as it is, and she won't even drive 5 minutes down the road to sleep in the same bed as me. I know she loves me, but I can't tell if she is just really scared for her grandma, or just enjoys being away from me. I've tried to compromise with her, and ask her just to stay with me one or 2 days out of the week, but she won't even discuss it with me, she just gets mad. Her grandmother might not even pass on for months, or years! What should I do? I feel so alone all the time, and I don't think she understands that because she is always with her mother and father and grandma, and I am just alone by myself. She also said she would stay there until the day comes that her grandma passes. I just feel like she put our life together on the backburner, and up and left. Even if it is just temporary. I barely talk to her on the phone, and most days, I don't even see her at all. I don't know if I can take this for long... PLEASE HELP!