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Can another man come to the hospitol and stop my husband from signing the bitrh certificate if he says he thinks he is the father? I'm so stressed out he won't stop texting my phone asking how his baby is and I don't even believe the baby is his. What are my rights and can the other man keep texting my phone and be there at the hospitol when I have the baby?
Yes he has rights too if he thinks he is the father he can demand a paternity test. He can also be made to pay child support.
If he is not going to let this go you are going to have to have a paternity test done.
However--he does NOT have the right to sign the birth certificate, and does NOT have the right to be in the delivery room.
If he wants rights, tell him to get a lawyer and fight for them.
He does not have the right to stop your husband from signing the BC.
As for your affair... he can petition for paternity and have the BC modified if he is found to be the father, but that does not give him the right to be at the hospital (or even visit if you don't want him to)
As far as the texting and harassing you are always welcome to request a protective order.
How long have you been married ? What state is this in ?
[QUOTE=califdadof3;1948850]How long have you been married ? What state is this in ? I've been married 6 months but together 3 years he knows about the affair. He believes he's the father. I live in Oklahoma... the other guy keeps saying he will be there at the hospitol and he will sign the because. I'm not worried about a paternity I just want to be able to go in and have this baby without any stress of him coming in there and blowing out. After I have the baby he can get his lawyer to do a dna.
I really just don't want him there at hospitol. If he wants something done after I have baby then fine I don't care I just don't want to be laying on an operating table worried about whether he's outside waiting on the baby to get out. I've known this man for 5 years he was my ex husbands best friend and he's always been obsessed with me. He has a very bad temper and makes me nervous. I just want him to stay away from me. If he wants something done then OK but he only way I want to hear from him is through a lawyer
Go to the courthouse and get a restraining order against him citing harassment.Quote:
Originally Posted by abbycloebraylee
He cannot come to the hospital anyway... but it's a solid way to ensure that the hospital enforces visitation policies.
I did talk to a lawyer over the phone and he said that with me being married my husband has every right to sign because if that's what I want and if the other man wants a paternity then he will have to go through lawyer and pay for one. He also told me that is if I let the staff att the hospitol know what's going on and he won't be able to come in and sign anything. But I figured with me being the mother no one can sign anything without going through me first. And he said as for him making comments about his lawyer until he really does something not to worry about him...
The lawyer gave you the same advice I would have. Inform the hospital, especially the security department, about this person and ask that they keep him away from you if he shows up.Quote:
Originally Posted by abbycloebraylee
Your husband can be there and sign the birth certificate. Until and unless this person goes to court requesting a paternity test then your husband will be the legal father.
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