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  • Aug 26, 2009, 08:22 PM
    xskydyverx
    My ex broke up with me for someone in a DIFFERENT STATE
    :confused: okay, well this is weird to explain but ill start at the beginning. So I transferred to a new school and I met this girl and she was so nice and I fell for her. I thought she liked me too. So we began talking more and more and I found out she already had a girlfriend. But her girlfriend lived in a different state. So me and her hung out and we kissed and I fell for her more. She eventually broke up with her girlfriend and went out with me. Then a month later she broke up with me for her girlfriend. I care for her sooo much and her girlfriend isn't even in the same state as we are. I don't understand long distance relationships! She wants to be with me but she wants to be with her. So what I'm asking is should I give her another chance knowing that she might leave me again for this girl who doesn't even live here? Please help me! Or give me your idea of it! Please! Thanks <3
  • Aug 26, 2009, 09:49 PM
    paxe

    My ex left me for someone from another continent. Leave her alone, if she can't decide she's not in love with you.
  • Aug 27, 2009, 05:52 AM
    amicon

    Yes leave this -too much drama.you don't need this repeated heartbreaks.
  • Aug 27, 2009, 07:37 AM
    talaniman
    You mean she cheated on her partner with you, and then she broke up to be with you, and now she is breaking up with you, to be with her again?

    Wow, you better get out of this drama, before she comes back to take her turn again, with you.

    Surely you can see her games she plays with the hearts of others??

    Read my signature very carefully.
  • Aug 27, 2009, 07:58 AM
    jmw0713

    Round and round we go. Break the cycle and find someone who respects you more.
  • Aug 27, 2009, 08:00 AM
    I wish

    So you want to get back with her just so that she can break up with you again? Why put yourself through so much pain? If you can handle the pain, then no one is going to stop you. But I'm sure there's something else out there who is just as nice but isn't a cheater.
  • Sep 2, 2009, 09:11 AM
    xskydyverx
    Thanks a lot, I left but I told her I was still here. It was getting hard but I feel like I can't find any one else and it sucks because getting over people is soooooo hard especially when her and her girlfriend won't be able to see each other is what pisses me off!! Ehhh:mad:
  • Sep 2, 2009, 09:14 AM
    I wish

    It's hard to get over someone if you keep focusing on them.

    Keep yourself busy and do something else instead of thinking about your ex. Make sure you keep your mind open to meeting new people. There are 6 billion people in this world, have you already met them all? If you have, you got to tell me how you did it. Otherwise, I highly doubt you won't be able to find someone else.
  • Sep 2, 2009, 09:34 AM
    Kagan88
    I have been in your situation before well kind of my friends use to tell me "if you love/care about someone let them go if they come back their yours if they don't the never were..." I use to live by that until my ex kept going back and forth between me and the other person. Sometimes you just have to let them go and NEVER take them back...

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