My sister is going to take my clothes to university even though I said no.
I'm just really mad right now. :mad:
First of all, my sister (5 years older then me, now 18. I'm 14) orginially never fit in my clothes, but after losing 25pounds, now she can.
She also thinks I'm an immature, spoiled brat. I'm sure most older sisters think of their younger ones this way. {masked profanity removed-<>}
I don't have much in the first place. 6 pairs of jeans, a few hoodies, tshirts. Just enough to suffice through my teenage life.
First of all, she has access to all my clothes because she took over my room this summer when she came back from university (yes, originally her room, but once she left, I moved in). She has turned into a complete pigsty. I kept 'her' room neat and tidy (not pristine, but nice and neat) and now its clothes (MY clothes... ) strewn everywhere with garbage and half eaten food on my clothing.
She wears only my clothes to work (I don't really mind that, I don't need them for now) and comes back and throws them on the floor everywhere. She wears my socks too. I don't have a single matched pair now.
She also complains that I have too many clothes. She says "I'm taking all your clothes with me when I leave okay?".
Of course, I say no. But she retorts "You like shopping so much, you can buy new clothes".
Sure, that sounds fine-dandy, but I LOVE MY CLOTHES. Everyone of them. I only buy the most fitted jeans for me and my hoodies are all warm and comfy. I take care of them well, keeping them odour, wrinkle, and stain free. I barely need to wash them, since washing them ruins them.
I decided to strike a deal with her. I said I'd give her some of my hoodies. SOme of the less-loved ones. But I say "You can't take my jeans".
Her retort? "Too Bad".
I've been completely serious too. I stamp my foot, and look down at her.
Her retort is still "Too bad."
I swear, she's being an idiot right now. I don't mind her taking clothes as long as I can still find them and wear them again. But she's taking them to university with her. I'll never see them again. I'd never get to wear them again till she comes back. Also, I'm not being selfish. She's taking them away and I'll never see them again. I'm pretty sure that's considered stealing, not borrowing/sharing.
She did it already. I looked everywhere for my brown stripe hoodie. Three weeks after giving up, she came home for the weekend, wearing it. I got so mad.
Her excuse for taking is still "You like shopping right? You can go buy more" (I actually don't shop that much, it's just since she's come home, I've gone shopping a lot for back-to-school. I'm going to high school, so my mom thinks I need new clothes).
So, I'm just venting. But, any advice would be helpful. I have a lock on this room that I am using right now, and have taken ALL THE clothes I can find and put them in here, but I can't lock the door at night and that's when she comes to take my clothes. Plus, she's already taken 2 pairs of jeans.
I'm pretty ticked off right now. I just want her to not my clothes away.