Originally Posted by
dreamingartist
No, from what I see it is this... She is a Christian, and she feels convicted and guilty that she is sinning. Having pre-marital sex is a sin in religion. It doesn't matter what you think opinion wise, its a sin. So if you are also a Christian and you think its "ok" to have sex and you don't really have a problem with it, what that is saying to me is, you aren't a strong Christian, at all.. and in return if someone is striving to be a strong Christian and her partner (the man) is weaker than she is in her spiritual walk, then she will gravitate away from you.
Now for you.. your translation "I don't mind Going to church, or praying together, or even when she's in the sudden mood to talk about how awesome God is; I'm up for it. I'm just unsure how far she wants to go with it.."
That basically says in my words. I am a Christian because she has interest in it, and I goto church because "she" wants to goto church, and as long as it leads to having sex then I am fine with doing whatever she wants.
The reality is... if she broke up with you, would you still goto church? Doubtful...
unless I am missing something here, you are just not living for God and she wants to... break up with this girl and move on to someone who has the same worldy views as yourself and this stuff isn't a issue. You will just bring her down, and eventually she will blame you for sinning. If you were a strong christian then you would understand and you would TRY and not have sex for YOU, not just for her... yes.. its hard... but you'd both feel guilty and both want to remain pure.
I Just don't see this one working out... unless you have a spiritual awakening and actually understand what she is all about.