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  • Aug 26, 2009, 12:12 PM
    S_o_a
    My best friend and boyfriend
    Hey guys

    Sorry I'm not used to this but I feel like I needa get something off my chest,

    My boyfriend has grown reli reli close with my best friend and I don't know what's happening. Recently id had a fight with her and haven't spoken to her since but every time I go online to speak to my boyfriend, all he talks about is her.
    "Shes cool so it doesnt matter wht u think of her, she likes me so what?" or "Im goin out with her soon" Am I overthinking? She's very similar to me but more attractive than me, I don't know what to do, every time I try to talk about it we end up in a fight and I don't want to break up. I have nothing but to sit there and act like everything is fine and pretend... Im on holiday so I can't see him..

    What should I do?
  • Aug 26, 2009, 12:16 PM
    artlady

    Quote:

    She's cool so it doesn't matter what you think of her, she likes me so what?" or "Im going out with her soon"
    If my BF said that to me I would say I hope you two have a good life together because I am outta' here.
    End of story.
    No,you are not over-thinking anything!
    If his friendship with her is more important to him than your relationship,let them go,both of them!
  • Aug 26, 2009, 12:21 PM
    Justwantfair
    I agree with Artlady.

    There is more to this story then you are getting from him.
    It's not uncommon for a 'good friend' and a 'boyfriend' to hook up.
    I think it's time to find new both.
  • Aug 26, 2009, 12:35 PM
    talaniman

    Quote:

    I don't want to break up. I have nothing but to sit there and act like everything is fine and pretend...
    You can stand up for yourself, and put him in his rightful place, and not be disrespected, by his BS!! Trust me, you would rather have him out of your life, than be punked by a punk.

    What does your best friend say about what Mr. Big Mouth is saying??

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