My insecurities ruining my relationship?
I've been dating this great guy for five months now, and things are going great. We always do things together and we do love each other now already. The thing is, I met him over the summer, and we both are attending college right now. I'm 19, he's 22. The problem is, we attend two different Universities, that are about an hour and a half away from each other (same state though). I'm going to live back at my dorm this weekend, and he's commuting from his house to school.
I'm not jealous when he talks to other girls, and I don't think he's cheating on me at all. But I'm afraid that when we're away from each other and we will only get to see each other on the weekends, that he will adopt an "out of site, out of mind" mentality and start flirting with and seeing other girls on campus... since he can't see me that much and there's all these girls on campus, why not, right? I've told him about this fear and he says, 'well we only see each other on the weekends anyway now!' Which is true because I work during the week and he takes this martial arts class during the weeks and works on the weekends. We usually just hang out Thursday night and during the day on Friday.
I know he gets annoyed that I keep bringing this up and says I'm making a big deal out of nothing, and that we will see one another on the weekend (well, Friday and maybe saturday) and everything will be OK... and that we get to spend winter and summer break with each other and that we only spend half of the year in school anyway. Which is true, but I'm still afraid he'll leave me because my last boyfriend did just that. But I don't want my new boyfriend to suffer because of what someone did to me before!
Anyway, I'm afraid that my insecurity will ruin our relationship! I don't want to ruin this because we have something so special! How can I stop?! :(