18yrs daughter kicked out after having party
My daughter refused to find a job and help around the house. We have over the past 3 years have spent over 10,000 on her from: braces,acne facial stuff,clothes, senior trips, etc.She has been lying about where she goes. Says she is going shopping but ends up in a concert 80 miles away. I have never denied her going anywhere. She lied she was going to a friends one night while we were gone and then proceeded to have a sleep over with 10 people both boy's and girl's with 72 bottles receipt and margarita mix was purchase in the process one of our house cat's was let outside and the cat is gone Someone had sex on my 9yr old's bed and left a used rubber there.She proceeded to not tell us tell we found all the pieces together after 2 weeks after repeatedly lying there was no sleep over. She showed no remorse and kicked her out to wake her up.
It is now 3 weeks and refuses to answer her phone and her mail is piling up.She is going to college. We left messages that here belongings need to be picked up.
What rights does she have being 18yrs old in NY.