Hi I've been told by a friend that they have seen my ex looking at my Facebook page and I think she has been looking at me emails as ones I haven't read are maked as been read. And know she knows my password as we lived together for over 3years and I was not up to anything so didn't worry me. Why is she looking at my Facebook page and pics and reading my emails? She broke up with 3weeks ago but we still talk by text but only small text. And I asked if she wanted to go for adrink and she said yes and we are meeting next month as we are busy at the mo. She text today to see what day ill be free next month?

If she broke up with me why she checking?

Not sure, probably because she has access. Change the password ASAP. Unfriend her in Facebook.

The bigger question is a) why haven't you changed your password and b) why do you care what she is looking at?

Agreed

She probably wants to know how your doing without her, keep tabs on you

But yeah change your password, you don't want to get fraped

What good will that do if I unfriend her on Facebook. I still like her and when she ened it I think she was stressed and wanted to travel the world and her feelings have changed for me and saying it s all gone holding back the tears. I could see her not really meaning it. She said she was young and there is so much she wants to do and said I was more of a homely person who wanted to get marryed and have kids. But still wants to keep me in her life even by text. And saying she will met me after work in sept I feel she needs time away on her own to sort her head out.

Space is good sometimes know if you really love and miss them. I really think at the time she meant it but I think see is missing me in her life. We did spend everday we where together seeing or talking to each other never missed a day for the 3and half years we where together. Think we lived in eachothers pockets.

Dude just change your password and moved on... just that simple..

Who cares what she thinks...

Change your password and defriend her. End of story


Sadly, you are going to. So I will tell you what you want to here

"Dude! She totally wants you back. You need to text her all the time tell her how much you love her and want to be with her. Dude that's the key, also steal her pet and return it acting like you found it. I'm sure that would work.

Where is the personal space or privacy nowadays?

I can't believe some many people are illegally browsing information that doesn't belong to them.

OP, if I were you, I will not put up with it! First you change the password, second you warn her about her action! Have to stop it!

Hey rome! Don't tell him to steal her pet, silly guy will get caught and then it won't matter if she reads his mail as he will be in jail!

If he's not smart enough to understand sarcasm then I lose faith in the intelligence of the kids

She is prob checking because she is curious. It dose sound like she cares for you still and wanted to be alone and single. I wouldn't put so much thought into it though because it will drive you crazy. Just change your password, and keep on moving on with life. I do feel that this site is a little harsh when it comes to ex's and to stop talking to them and everything else. But to each his own, people handle things differently and from what it sounds like was she was young and wanted to experince life a little, there is nothing wrong with that and she isn't an evil person because of that. Just don't allow her to lead you on, live your life. If you feel that her texting and things like that is keeping you from living your life then you should go NC.

She is keeping tabs on your personal life, so change your password. Her knowledge of them makes you too available to her.

The biggest thing here, is she is doing it behind your back, and you have not confronted that, and learned her motives first hand.