Here we go... my girl of a year has this guyfriend. They gots this weird flirty friendship and he hit on her while the two of them was out. My girlfriend was mad at him (even though she use to have a thing for him in the past) and they didn't talk for a while. A few months go by and she says she's going to eventually be friends with this guy... I ask her to explain to me why but she isn't having it y'all. Am I da only one who thinks this guy just going to hit on her again? I think she been leading him on in the past, but she keep saying she isn't into him like that, she wants the friendship.

What do I do?

I think if your lady is hot then she is always going to be hit on. You know how guys are, but the worry for me would come by way of she use to be attracted to him, and now he is attracted to her. Sure they can be friends, but it will only take one night of bad moments with you or a lot of drinks with him for there to be a night of bad for you. It is a recipe for disaster, really your choice. I would remove myself from the situation and say you two need to figure out if you want to give it a try. Like I said it may not be bad yet, but 5 long island tea's and you could walk in on a mess. I would just be cool and tell her to go out with him and see where it goes. It sucks for you, but it will suck worse if you find out she messed with that dude and then a few hours or days later messed with you and you have an STD and a broken heart.

This same thing is going on wit me. Well was. He was doing it to piss me off to a point where he left and could take her away. Don't fold bro. But if you can't trust her, you need to be careful.

Do nothing and don't let the competition spook you. Trust her until you can't, but I have to tell you, not being able to explain it to you and becoming defensive is something to watch in her. How old are you guys?