How much does Facebook mean in a relationship?
Hi,
So I am dating and in love with this girl, but she was in a relationship with another guy on Facebook when we met. When I confronted her about it, she said it was her ex boyfriend and they did it as a joke because some girl was trying to ask her ex out. Later, I asked her to change it, and she said that I didn't trust her. She finally changed it after almost breaking up with me. She said I have trust issues and that trust should come first in the relationship. On her Facebook she also has old pictures with the guy saying, "My guy", but these photos are from 2 months ago. She said she broke up with the guy a few months ago (like at least 5 or 6). Then, I checked her Facebook today and last month (after she visited my family in Los Angeles and met most of my friends), she went on Facebook and wrote to her ex "I was looking for hot guys on facebook and I found you". Do you think I should trust her? She says that her ex and her are best friends and that they hang out a lot. We are doing a long distance thing right now and it is just hard to trust her.
Basically, DOES WHAT SOMEONE SHOWS ON FACEBOOK REALLY demonstrate what they mean? I would like to think not, but if there is a lot of evidence.. photos, relationships, and comments--what to think?
She constantly assures me that nothing is going on and they are just friends (really good friends).
I have seen text messages from her ex that he loves her.
I love this girl, but she is hurting me. Any advice?