I'm looking for a film starring julia roberts I saw about 6 or 8 years ago in it julia marries a bloke who's a control freak. The parts I can remember is when she gets up in the morning she has to rearrange all the cupboards or her husband beats her, she takes swimming lessons behind his back, they go on a boat trip caus they live by the sea, she fakes her own death to setup home elsewhere then returns back to the marital home. Please help many thanks Paulie D