hi everyone, I need help trying to understand my ex boyfriend, we r presently trying to work things out after a whole year of our official breakup. He talks about marrying me and other stuff but have stood me up 2x on a date w/o even calling... I know he is working a lot but I don't understand the big deal in picking up the phone to call me to cancel... I did hurt him a lot in the past and yesterday I asked him why he couldn't call me to cancel he said he was sick and that he was scared of me, then I told him if he doesn't want me around I've no problem leaving for good. But when I asked why is he scared of me he said he would call me back and is been 1day and still no call. Should I forget about everythin and move on, or is he scared ill hurt him, since I did in the past before

Do you need this? Not cancelling is rude. Why do you think he s scared of you?how did you hurt him before?

Seems like too much BS to be putting up with on either end. I would cut the losses and start anew.

You're both playing games, but neither of you know the rules.

Break it off, move on, he's made his feelings clear.

I think you know the answer already, but need a second opinion. Find someone else. People with respect for others NEVER stand someone up without a phone call. He did it twice. Why are you still waiting on this guy to call? You've made it a year without him, so... carry on.