Can anyone tell me hot stuff to say during sex, like the guy I'm seeing is saying loads and I'm cluless :( I need help what do you say?? Like what turns a guy on

First, don't use chat speak. The word is "what", not "wat".

Second--why does this question come up over and over and over again?

Are you looking for a script? If so, rent a porno.

If not--then just talk about what YOU would like HIM to do---or what YOU would like to do to him.

Seriously--if you have to think that much about it, it's going to sound stupid or scripted regardless.