My husband and I have been married for a year and a half. Our marriage has been great and we love each other so much. I have noticed lately though that he doesn't offer to show me any affection anymore and I can't keep his attention for more than 2 seconds. When we first got married he would hug, snuggle, cuddle, and wanted me 24/7. It use to be the moment I walked in from work; he wanted to get busy and have sex right then and there. At that time I was on multiple antidepressants and it was hard for me to want sex, but eventually I came off them and went back to having sex with him whenever he wanted it. I have gained a few pounds since we've been married and so has he. Lately I have to beg and throw myself at him to get him to look. I came home from work yesterday and he never hugged me, never said good-night, not even a kiss. I often wonder if he's just not attracted to me anymore, or even worse if he could be seeing another woman. I don't know what's up; and I have tried everything I know. When I talk to him about it, he's great the day that I mention it to him, but then he goes back to being unwelcoming or unloving again. What do I do, because I am starting to feel more like his friend and maid than his lover.
