Ask Me Help Desk - Its still possible right?

If you have read my other posts you know that my husband and I are trying to conceive. My lack of patience got the best of me today and I took a test. It was negative. I'm not due for my period until the 23rd. Waaaay too early I know. So there is still totally a possibility I could be pregnant?

I would say you should stop trying and just have fun with it. Even though the both of you may be OK in all areas doesn't mean one of you could be nervous about it and not give it your all like you may think you are... like lets say your husband is nervous about the whole thing so when you guys try at it he thinks he had did it or so he tells you and acts like he is... this is possible... I'm not saying that is what's happening... its just what could happen if one of you are slightly nervous... also you guys might beable to have a child but your guys egg and sperm might not work together but I'm sure you might have already paid money to find that out. But try not to worry about it... and I hope the best for you. Try to just have fun with it and not get your hopes up and maybe it will just happen for you! OK well good luck to you!

You that could happen. But that's not really what's going on with us. We already have 2 children. We're very excited to be trying. Which is why I think I jumped the gun on taking a test. But I should have waited because I think even if I was pregnant (which I don't feel like I am) it wouldn't have shown up this early. I hate the waiting game! :)

Let me make sure I'm understanding you jessica, are you suggesting that her husband is only pretending to finish?
And what the heck does this ever mean "you guys might beable to have a child but your guys egg and sperm might not work together but im sure you might have already payed money to find that out." I'm really curious to know how their egg and sperm don't work together. Because all that I remember from bio is that even though the eggs aren't always fertilized, that's pretty much what happens when the sperm and the egg do get together. And why would they have already paid money to find out? She didn't say anything about they've been having trouble conceiving. It's only normally recommended to see a fertility specialist after a year of unsuccessful trying.

Mama, yes, there is still very much a possibility that you may be pregnant. But it sounds like you already know that :) good luck

Thank you just curious! I wasn't too sure what jessica was talking about, but it definitely had nothing to do with what's going on with me! Anyway, I realize I shouldn't have posted this thread. I'm just getting anxious! Need afformation haha. But you, I already know the answer to my question. Thank you for answering anyway! :)

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Originally Posted by Jessica143

i would say you should stop tring and just have fun with it. even though the both of you may be ok in all areas doesnt mean one of you could be nervous about it and not give it your all like you may think you are...like lets say your husband is nervous about the whole thing so when you guys try at it he thinks he had did it or so he tells you and acts like he is... this is possible... im not saying that is whats happening... its just what could happen if one of you are slightly nervous... also you guys might beable to have a child but your guys egg and sperm might not work together but im sure you might have already payed money to find that out. but try not to worry about it... and i hope the best for you. try to just have fun with it and not get your hopes up and maybe it will just happen for you! ok well good luck to you!

I know exactly what she is talking about... let me explain.. my fiancé had a vasectomy reversal for health reasons but after the surgery when he had to get a check up the doc explained to us that even if we are both completely fertile, we may not be compatible with each other in the sense that we will be able to reproduce naturally and we may end up needing "help" ALTHOUGH this is not the case with you and hubby because you already have children together and the OP might not have realized that or not caught it when reading your post. Good luck!