My ex girlfriend calls after NC. But is NC working?
Hey people...
After trying everything I went for NO CONTACT for 3 months with my ex girlfriend from 25th may 2009... also I didn't wish her B'day (15 july) because I thought she may think that I still have feelings for her... But guess what... she herself called me in the evening... but as I was following the NC rule... I didn't pick her call...
Now yesterday I got a call from her... and as it was already 3 months I picked up the call and answered Formally... Our mother tongue is HINDI... but v both talked in ENGLISH... so it sounded like I talked with her Formally..
QUESTION 1:M following T W JACKSON's book... he had said that after NC we should talk to ex in friendly and polite tone... but I talked in formal tone... DID I MAKE A MISTAKE?? Though in formal tone I was polite BUT formal...
Also I made the conversation short ( just 2 minutes 30 sec) as per all the guide say...
Then she texted me this : "ya thanx for ur 3 mins... u r actually showin me my position in ur life .. but i know it ... all d best for xams ... take cr.. gudnite.bye."
What does this means?? I called her back ( tell me is it a mistake but since NC is over I thot I can call ) but again I just asked about the text message she sent... I talked very politely did time... and cut the conversation for 1 min 28 secs...
Please tell me what mistakes I did... Should I have used POLITE ND FRIENDLY tone instead of Formal tone... but I thot it might let her think that I still care a lot for her and lover and all... dats why I chose FORMAL tone... please comment...