I'm going to scratch the next person who says that to me...

If you want to go lay in a tanning bed for 3hrs until you're orange no one cares, but god forbid you want to lighten your skin. You automatically hate yourself and have ethnic identity issues... blah blah, love the skin you're in, black is beautiful blah blah etc etc.


I have BAD hyperpigmentation from acne that NO ONE sees because I am a make up genius and I can make my skin look flawless, I should be working in Hollywood. I don't need to be the same color as Beyonce or Tyra Banks (thought that would be nice) I just want even skin... and one understands. I am good at covering it but ugh, I don't want to have to wear all that make up just to look normal, sometimes I just want to hang out with my boyfriend and be casual and not have a fullface of makeup on because I am embarrassed, I don't think he's ever seen me without it! No one understands... grrr...

http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=33w9jpu&s=3


(I cropped the pic because I am wearing an a small bikini , but yeah that's my face when I have all my makeup, without it I don't even look like the same person)

Don't you just hate want to be psychiatrists that THINK they know you?

I agree the same people that will go out and spend money perming their hair and coloring it and feel they need to look like a million bucks will turn and make comments like that.
I think they just want to make themselves feel superior because they are jealous.

Dessami, I know exactly how you feel and there must be so many of us out there that just want to have a nice even skin tone. It may seem trivial to some, but looking at yourself in the mirror without makeup and seeing a face that always looks dirty can be very depressing, and anyone who has managed to even out the pigmentation and scars knows just how uplifting that feels. If we lived in a society where no one judges you on how you look, then fine, but unfortunately that is not the case and in my lifetime never will be, so we have to press on and make ourselves the best we can be. If some women want to be lighter then surely that is their choice, and who are we to say that their lives won't be better for it.

- exfoliate every day followed by an intense moisturizer (even if your complexion is oily... moisture does = equal oil)
- wear sunscreen even if your complexion is dark
-if really desperate consult a day spa, they have treatments that will help your skin look more even
-if you don't want these just using a mineral makeup on casual days will help tremendously and not feel heavy or clog pores. I have incredibly dark undereye circles and it makes them look perfect to match my skintone so I'm sure whatever imperfections you might have it would help (I have bare minerals but the maybelline brand works very well too)

I meant moisture does not = oil *

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Originally Posted by jennnaaaay

- exfoliate every day followed by an intense moisturizer (even if your complexion is oily...moisture does = equal oil)
- wear sunscreen even if your complexion is dark
-if really desperate consult a day spa, they have treatments that will help your skin look more even
-if you dont want these just using a mineral makeup on casual days will help tremendously and not feel heavy or clog pores. i have incredibly dark undereye circles and it makes them look perfect to match my skintone so im sure whatever imperfections you might have it would help (i have bare minerals but the maybelline brand works very well too)

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That's not enough for my skin, its not like those girls on the commercials who have a tiny little uneven spot on their face and rub some cream and two days later its gone, their BEFORE skin is still 100Xs better than mine! This has been a problem for ages, when I break out I scar easily, my breakouts are under control but scars are STILL there! Ugh...

Have you been to see a skin specilist? They can give you options, expensive options but over the years no more then you would pay for make up etc...

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Originally Posted by puppydoggie

have you been to see a skin specilist? they can give you options, expensive options but over the years no more then you would pay for make up ect...

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Yeah I have, I have done microderm and that didn't work. I would like Intense light treatment or laser resurfacing but its expensive, and they need all that money upfront, makeup adds up over time

For scars I believe skin lighteners will just help lighten them. You actually need to remove them by renewing the skin.

Yes, exfoliating beads are good but I prefer a topical lotion. I used to have quite bad acne scars but they have nearly 100% faded.

Look for products that contain Glycolic acid or lactic acid (If you have sensitive skin). You can find them in creams, lotions and even facial cleansers. I've tried a topical lotion by Alpha-H called Liquid Gold, this contain Glycolic acid, it was pretty good.
Once you use begin using any of these acids, you will need to wear SPF every day, minimum factor 15.

Good luck!