Last night me and my guy had some pretty rough sex and we couldn't finish because it hurt me really bad... I can't even explain the pain. So when I went to urinate it stung really bad and I was bleeding so I took a mirror to see what was going on and it looks like scratch marks or something. But how could his penis scratch me? So now I'm scared to go pee and the bleeding has gotten lighter but is still there and it still stings when I urinate. Has this ever happened to anyone? Or are there any ways to relieve the pain?

Rough sex can do that. That's some very tender tissue you're playing around with, it can tear.

I'd lay off the rough sex, slow things down.

For now, you'll just have to wait to heal. Take things easy for a while.

This happened to me recently, actually. My current boyfriend is rather erm.. large, and the first time we had sex the pain was so intense. It burned when I went to the bathroom and after feeling around I realised that I had torn slightly.

Time healed mine.

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Originally Posted by Sariss

This happened to me recently, actually. My current boyfriend is rather erm.. large, and the first time we had sex the pain was so intense. It burned when I went to the bathroom and after feeling around I realised that I had torn slightly.

Time healed mine.

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Been there done that too.

It doesn't even matter if the man is large.

Those are some very sensitive tissues we have, they can easily become torn, sore, bruised.

Time heals all wounds? ;)

Well I have a friend who will remain nameless that this happened to, and she ended up having chlamydia. Yup, her man was LARGE, bled the VERY FIRST time they had sex and almost every time after that until a girl that he had been with before her informed her that he gave her chlamydia and so she went to get checked and sure enough.. chlamydia positive. Not saying you have something, but its worth getting checked! You should not burn or tear from rough sex, my ex husband and my fiancé now were the 2 roughest men in bed I've seen, but I never ripped or anything from it. Just a thought. Good luck

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Originally Posted by Tkraus

well i have a friend who will remain nameless that this happened to, and she ended up having chlamydia. yup, her man was LARGE, bled the VERY FIRST time they had sex and almost every time after that until a girl that he had been with before her informed her that he gave her chlamydia and so she went to get checked and sure enough.. chlamydia positive. not saying you have something, but its worth getting checked!! you should not burn or tear from rough sex, my ex husband and my fiance now were the 2 roughest men in bed ive seen, but i never ripped or anything from it. just a thought. good luck

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I love it when people come here and say;

A friend of a friends roomates boyfriend had this happen so it could be happening to you.

I agree that there are other possibilities, but it's not likely.

Rough sex, not good, can cause bleeding. In fact, I'd bet that the majority of women
Bleed after rough sex.

Thanks and yea I already got checked a few weeks ago and I'm clean so I know its not an std