A really confusing breakup, now she is ignoring me and I want her back, I'm 19 she's 17
Okay bear with me for this story if its long... but me and my ex started dating August 26th, 2008, almost one year ago. Everything was perfect, she was my first girlfriend, first kiss, first everything! I was so happy! I treated her like a princess, our first date was at the fanciest restaurant in town, afterwords I surprised her by taking her to this park with a lake, with a blanket, pillow, and candle, full moon. I got her flowers on numerous occasions, made her cookies, would always open her door and buckle her in to make sure she is safe.
Then in October, she was on myspace, posted a bulliten, and this guy emailed her... long story short, they started texting and next thing I know, she was telling him she loved him too, and 'babe', and she is a cheerleader, so the guy from another school was a football player and they met a few times and kissed, made out or whatever, but that was it.
I broke up with her when I found out but she cried and wanted me back because she knew she loved me so much, I was the person she fell hardest for, no doubt, so I took her back, and she cheated on me 4 other times with him from october-november. The 4th time I had it, I ignored her for a full week and she cried when she saw me and told me she loved me only. She deleted that guy off her phone and myspace and really did prove to me she loved me only.
So we were good until around xmas... I lost my job, but had 4K saved up, so I spent like 1,000 on her and gave her the best xmas ever. But soon after she wanted to hang out with this other football player from another school alone on a date. I said no and we eventually we got over it... but he comes up later on.
Then the week of my birthday in February, she breaks up with me for this guy on myspace she never met before, he comes down from la and he is short, smelly, horrible at talking to her, and she blew me off that entire week then after her sucky date she wants me back. But I started having feelings for her friend at the time. She saw that and it killed her.. eventually I stopped talking to her friend and we were fine.
Fast forward to now. We went on many more trips and dates and I gave her a promise ring back in march. We were great but then bam, in June, she breaks up with me because she isn't happy... 2 days later, that guy she wanted to hang out with in December alone, well she went to his house alone in his room... nothing happened because I guess he smokes weed and she hates that, but still. 2 weeks later she misses me and wants me back. I take her back but break up with her like 5 hours later because I'm so disgusted and her going over to his house.
We hung out still and about 5 days later I ask her to be my girlfriend again, but she said no! I was hurt! I didn't do anything to her! In fact, 3 weeks ago I took her on a wonderful date and movie and everything, we made love even and that night she said she fell out of love with me. Then 5 days later we hung out, I buy her a dress, bra, flowers, cookies, made her a card, she said we'll get back together soon, then she ends up telling me the next day to move on... and she changes her number on me.
She ignored me for a week then calls 2 days in a row at 1am saying she misses me. She stops for another week, then calls again from her new number, (she is blocking her new number btw) saying how my day was. I lied of course and said "it was great!" she said "why what did you do? were you with another girl or something?", so I said its none of her business we aren't together. And I haven't heard from her since :(
I honestly miss her. Trust me, many of you will say "dude she sounds like she is using you" but I do want her back. Call me crazy, but I don't know what her motive is behind all of this! She has never gone this long without talking to me, does she not miss me or care anymore? I really need help :( sorry its long.