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  • Aug 13, 2009, 09:54 PM
    jenniepepsi
    Need to know if this is OK?
    Wow, normally I am answering on this board. Not asking :P but we all need some advice I guess lol.


    As some of you know my husband and I haven't been on the best of terms for a while, so of course the sex has been non existent. Can't really get into love making when your not really feeling the love you know? :P

    But we had a long long talk last night, and just had sex tonight, as we were both pretty sexually frustrated. (its been like 2 months, and we are both fairly young, I'm 24 and he is 30)

    So my question is.

    Is it normal after not having sex for so long, for my vagina to be fairly sore afterwards? Its been a good 10 minutes and the soreness hasn't gone away.

    We didn't do anything new. So that's not it.

    Any thoughts?

    *EDIT* I should also add, I was pretty wet, so it wasn't dry sex or anything. THAT I could understand.
  • Aug 13, 2009, 10:24 PM
    cakajaka
    Ummm... yeah I'd say that's fairly normal jennie, especially if the sex was pretty good & lasted long. My girlfriend would go through that when we'd have our droughts too. Now... if it's still sore after a day or two, then no it's not normal. Hope you guys are on the road to getting your groove back permantly.:)
  • Aug 13, 2009, 10:27 PM
    jenniepepsi

    :D thanks cakajaka.

    Yeah it was pretty long and good this time. Ill let you know if it continues. If it stops you won't hear from me again probably ;)

    Thanks hon.
  • Aug 13, 2009, 10:31 PM
    Alty

    I have to agree with cakajaka (that was fun to type:))

    Think about it like this. If you were to run every day, the first few times you'd feel sore, but then you'd get used to it. If you were to stop for a period and then restart, you'll feel the soreness again because your body is not longer used to it.

    Okay, that sounded really good in my head. :(

    But you, it's normal. :)
  • Aug 13, 2009, 10:38 PM
    nikosmom

    2 months is a long time to be inactive. So what you're describing is pretty normal. I wouldn't be surprised if you have some sore leg and back muscles as well tomorrow morning.

    Good luck to getting back on track!

    Cakajaka. Cakajaka. Yep, that's fun to type. Hope it doesn't mean something naughty... or do I? :rolleyes:
  • Aug 14, 2009, 07:41 AM
    jenniepepsi

    Lol thanks ladies. Nice example alty. Hehe.

    Yeah cakajaka definitely sounds naughty ;)

    cakajaka, we are waiting for you to tell us if its dirty or not :P

    Caka JAAAAKAAA
    Where AAREEE YOUUU
  • Aug 14, 2009, 10:17 AM
    shazamataz

    cakajaka... just wanted a turn...

    It's almost as fun as badinkadink...

    And yeah to make this post legit, perfectly normal Jennie :)
  • Aug 14, 2009, 10:33 AM
    N0help4u

    Take it from the expert on rarity
    I agree with the others
  • Aug 14, 2009, 03:42 PM
    jenniepepsi

    Mmm well I'm all better :P although I thnk I was a little swollen for a while this morning (at least my urethra was) as it was hard to pass urine this morning. But its not a problem anymore.


    Wow I just realised how EASY it is for me to share personal info... im not shy or embarrassed at all as long as I'm online ;)
  • Aug 14, 2009, 03:48 PM
    N0help4u
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jenniepepsi;1924057/


    wow i just realised how EASY it is for me to share personal info....im not shy or embarrassed at all as long as im online ;)

    You say you live in AZ? Well guess what I have been trying to move there for years
    I'll be your neighbor someday :eek::D
  • Aug 14, 2009, 03:52 PM
    jenniepepsi

    That would be so awsome nohelp!
  • Aug 14, 2009, 06:48 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    You say you live in AZ? Well guess what I have been trying to move there for years
    I'll be your neighbor someday :eek::D

    Canada is nice, move here.

    Who am I kidding. It's cold.

    Move to AZ. Maybe I'll join you. ;)

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