:confused::mad: I can't get over my ex and we went out for a couple of months and then I go to mexico for 2 weeks and I find out that my boyfriend had kissed some chick so I got really jealous and broke up with him but now I really regret it and he won't listen to me and he never wants to talk to me... he says were still friends and when we hang out we still kiss and stuff but he won't talk to me and I can't get over him at all no matter what I try and I still love him a lot... he was my most serious relationship and I can't get over him... I tried moving on and I've tried not talking to him but nothing works :(:(:(... any advice??

What should I do?

What can I do to get him to talk to me?

How can I get him to give me another chance?

How do I get over him?

Any thing else you would think I need help with just put it down... please comment back and help me



Thanks you're the best!!

If I was you, I don't think I would go out with him if he kissed some chick while you where away. Although he might have thought you weren't going out with him anymore, if this is the case, apologise and tell him you where mistaken. If he still doesn't want to talk to you, its his loss.

But if you 2 are REALLY done, the way I got over my ex was:

1. I deleted ALL his emails

2. I worte his name on a piece of paper, ripped it, and threw it in the fire!

3. I stopped fantisizing about him and got on with my life

Hope this helps! :)

He kissed another girl and you are the one begging to get him back? Am I the only person who sees something wrong with that?

Leave the turd and get someone who deserves you. He won't talk to you but he will still kiss you?? It doesn't work like that.

You only went out for two months, and you're in all this agony over him.

But, obviously there was some spark, and who knows if it is worth pursuing.

You have two choices. Do as peopleperson said, and I wholeheartedly agree with, or, keep yourself available in case he decides that he needs you for a makeout session. That way you can keep getting dumped without a real commitment.

I know I'm being sarcastic, it just seems to me a waste of time to keep after this guy when quite clearly he is not interested.

Well, getting over a person usually means losing those feelings you had for them. Now, how in the world do you expect to get over him if you still hang out with him, still kiss him, and basically still do everything you used with him that brings all those feelings back?

You can't make him want to talk to you, and if you're trying to get over him then there is no reason to talk him about anything. What do you need to tell him? He probably already knows you still have feelings for him but talking to him about it won't really change anything, in my opinion. And if he doesn't want to give you another chance than, again, you can't make him.

What I think you should do is stop talking to him, stop contacting him until the feelings you have for him are gone. I think you had a great reason for leaving him the first place, so don't think that this break up is all your fault. He kissed another girl for crying out loud! Why would you want him back? What if he does it again?

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Originally Posted by nicole93

:confused::mad: i can't get over my ex and we went out for a couple of months and then i go to mexico for 2 weeks and i find out that my bf had kissed some chick so i got really jealous and broke up with him but now i really regret it and he wont listen to me and he never wants to talk to me...he says were still friends and when we hang out we still kiss and stuff but he wont talk to me and i can't get over him at all no matter what i try and i still love him alot...he was my most serious relationship and i can't get over him...i tried moving on and ive tried not talking to him but nothing works :(:(:(...any advice???

What should i do?

What can i do to get him to talk to me?

How can i get him to give me another chance?

How do i get over him?

any thing else you would think i need help with just put it down...please comment back and help me



thanks your the best!!!

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Time to love yourself, don't worry about this loser.

What should I do?
Leave him alone!!
What can I do to get him to talk to me?
Nothing but leave him alone.
How can I get him to give me another chance?
You can't so leave him alone.
How do I get over him?
By leaving him alone
Any thing else you would think I need help with just put it down... please comment back and help me
Its fairly simple, you dumped him for kissing another girl, then tried to go back, and now he is using you. Leave him alone, and save the kissing for some one who cares. He doesn't, but he loves having you try to get him back, so you must be a great make out buddy.

You dumped him for good reason, and going back wasn't that smart.