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  • Oct 23, 2006, 03:01 PM
    beme
    Who Do I Pick
    I don't know if anyone of you watch Greys Anotomy but how Maridith had to pick between the vet or Doctor well I have a same thing I'm not that old in middle school bu my way ia why go out with someone if you can't see yourself with them forever anyway... :confused: so about my problem person lets call him Boy A well he ask me out and he is funny and loving and great at everything he does I been friends with him forever well if you have seen my other entry made last week you will see anyway OK he ask me out well so did Boy B and I am stuck I love both Boy B is funny and sweet and is caring... But both boys have something bad Boy A can drive me nuts he is always by me every where I mean I like it but it gets on my nerves I need some space... Boy B I like an all but flirts and is "friends" with a lot of girls and I don't know if I can trust him... so first ? Is How Do I tell Boy A to not stock me and stuff and he can do his own things but I still want to be like that because we never see each other so I like it... #2 is who do I pick or Do I try to see a "DATE" like in the show... aND I have another... I like Boy A only at home and when I am away from him sometimes with him and Boy B I like him when I with him but when I am away I don't really care so you what do I
  • Oct 23, 2006, 04:15 PM
    talaniman
    You pick the one you want. They both sound like really young guys and you sound too young to be in a relationship since you can't make up your own mind. Date them both and then some. Do yourself a big favor and forget about looking for marriage material now. Just date and have fun and get your education.
  • Oct 23, 2006, 04:22 PM
    valinors_sorrow
    Tell the truth please. What do your parents say about you dating at such a young age?
  • Oct 23, 2006, 06:55 PM
    s_cianci
    Frankly, neither one sounds like a very hot catch to me. Boy A sounds very needy and insecure and you don't feel that you can trust boy B. Personally, I'd pass on both of these guys and keep on looking.

    Quote:
    Originally Posted by valinors_sorrow
    Tell the truth please. What do your parents say about you dating at such a young age?
    Val, nowadays a lot of parents are so naïve and/or indulgent that they feel it's perfectly OK for children to date at such a young age. These parents need a reality check. What's really scary is that with such misguided adults leading these children, it's no wonder that the children get themselves into the messes that they do. When the parents don't even have their act together, how can you expect the kids to?
  • Oct 24, 2006, 04:06 PM
    beme
    OK and OK trying to find out my age is none of your bisunees so buz off anyway OK I understand but to let you guys know I pick BOY A thnkx for your help
  • Oct 24, 2006, 04:12 PM
    valinors_sorrow
    Beme: My my, such a reaction when all I was getting at was it seems possible that you are still too young to really date and all this is conjecturing. :rolleyes:

    Ciani: It helps to read through some of her other posts, as Tal so readily reminded me. ;)
  • Oct 24, 2006, 04:27 PM
    talaniman
    The smart mouth philly is 13 just so you all know and she has an attitude.
  • Oct 24, 2006, 04:41 PM
    valinors_sorrow
    And my guess by her tone is she is lucky enough to have parents that are still involved, are likely holding her back from dating and now that we know, the jig is up.

    You have plenty of time for this later Beme. Really you will, sweetie.
  • Oct 25, 2006, 03:00 PM
    beme
    I didn't mean it like that and who says I am 13 so wow okie dokie... And acting like there is plenty of time OK not that much if you new my real age and I not going to give out my real age thank you I guess I should be asking you guys anymore the only on I can trust is Chery so I guess that and if you want to say stuff bad on this hey go ahead... I"M NOT 13 I'm not exzactly 13 I'm NOT 13 so yea
  • Oct 25, 2006, 03:05 PM
    talaniman
    That's what you put on your profile so why lie about it? If you can't be honest then what do you expect from us here?
  • Oct 25, 2006, 03:09 PM
    valinors_sorrow
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by beme
    i didnt mean it like that and who says i am 13 so wow okie dokie........And acting like there is plenty of time ok not that much if you new my real age and i not going to give out my real age thank you i guess i should be asking you guys anymore the only on i can trust is Chery so i guess that and if you want to say stuff bad on this hey go ahead....I"M NOT 13 i'm not exzactly 13 i'm NOT 13 so yea
    What you should have been doing is putting it out there truthfully so you would get an appropriate answer. Chery will tell you no differently. It's a pretty common experience that if a someone cons people, they won't be very supportive. And when someone gets caught in a lie, they should make amends.
  • Oct 25, 2006, 03:19 PM
    Wildcat21
    12 - some how I don't think her parents would want her on this site. We really should only be answering questions with adults - for a lot of reasons.

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