Originally Posted by
doesitgetbetter
Why don't you just tell her? It seems logical to not play games...Let her know that you like her more than just a friend - if she denies you then just explain that you would like to remain friends but not to hate you one night if you accidentally hit on her or fall for her even more...at this point if you can't handle it then don't hang out with her so much or end it. But I think communication is best. If I was her I would want to know - and I have been in those shoes before. I know it can be a bit embarassing but so what, at least u won't look like a jerk trying to make an inappropriate move on her. I think she will respect you more for it and if she doesn't then maybe try finding someone else. While you two hang out hit on other people - maybe one day she will get jealous.