I had sex in decememer 2008, and I still get my periods some things I have serious crab and all of a sudden, it goes away and sometimes I feel like something is moving in my stomach could I be pregnant? Since July 2009 I have had three periods all in one month but some of them are light spolttings and am still have sex, could I be pregnant and even if I am, will the baby be safe with all the sex I have been having?

Have you taken a HPT? Cause if you are suspecting that you are pregnant, you're due in a month. I'd suggest strongly to go to your doctor, cause you never know.

Hi, I have not done that. And I don't even have a doctor because I don't have insurance. Any advise because am really scared I don't want anything g to happy to the baby if at all am pregnant. And its there a way you have sex that affect your baby?

9 times out of 10 they can also redirect you to free health care while you finish th epregnancy. Just because you don't have health insurance doesn't mean they won't do everythign in their power to help you have a healthy baby. There are certain things you can apply for that a walk-in clinic can inform you of. Just please go in. It isn't safe to go through a pregnancy by yourself if you truly are pregnant.

Hi, am 21 years and getting married in decemember 2009 but my fiancie and I are planning to get pregnant before my wedding day since we both love kids. Fortunately his in spain and am in usa but am planning to go to spain in septmember 2009 to meet him. My cycle is 31 days and I usually get my period on the 3rd of every month. When will be the best time to travel so that when we have sex, I will be pregnant? Thanks for your help

Let me get this straight you are talking to a guy [you never met?] about getting pregnant and then getting married.
Why put the cart before the horse.
You are bringing on too much for yourself. You need to really get a good solid relationship with this guy before you should even consider dragging a baby into the picture.
You can't possibly have gotten to know enough about him over the internet, phone or whatever without having spent physical quality time to really know him and not just the image he wanted you to have of him

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Hi, I have not done that. And I don't even have a doctor because I don't have insurance. Any advise because am really scared I don't want anything g to happy to the baby if at all am pregnant. And it's there a way you have sex that affect your baby?

How will you afford a baby if you can't afford medical jnsurance?

Well before figuring out the best day to get pregnant around your cycles think of yourself emotionally, financially.

Are you going to want to start having kids right after your married, would that be good for the relationship, having a child just to make your relationship stronger is not something I would suggest in doing, children are a lot of work and you would not have much alone time with your new hubby. And financially, after all the wedding expenses and the home bills, phone bills, insurance bills, which ever bills that you may have are you going to be able to provide a good upbringing for your child?

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Let me get this straight you are talking to a guy [you never met?] about getting pregnant and then getting married.
Why put the cart before the horse.
You are bringing on too much for yourself. You need to really get a good solid relationship with this guy before you should even consider dragging a baby into the picture.
You can't possibly have gotten to know enough about him over the internet, phone or whatever without having spent physical quality time to really know him and not just the image he wanted you to have of him

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Out of greenies but this HAS to be a troll or else someone who has some issues: Posted by OP on another thread: "i had sex in decememer 2008, and i still get my periods some things i have serious crab and all of a sudden, it goes away and sometimes i feel like something is moving in my stomach could i be pregnant? since july 2009 i have had three periods all in one month but some of them are light spolttings and am still have sex, could i be pregnant and even if iam, will the baby be safe with all the sex i have been having?"

(Note to self: check out rules/regulations about mailing sperm from Spain to US. :) What I find could save OP from a lengthy trip.)

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Seriously considered about potentially misrepresentation.
I expect the OP to explain what's going on here.

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Originally Posted by N0help4u

Let me get this straight you are talking to a guy [you never met?] about getting pregnant and then getting married.
Why put the cart before the horse.
You are bringing on too much for yourself. You need to really get a good solid relationship with this guy before you should even consider dragging a baby into the picture.
You can't possibly have gotten to know enough about him over the internet, phone or whatever without having spent physical quality time to really know him and not just the image he wanted you to have of him

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I totally agree with N0help4u on this... you need to actulay meet this guy in person and get to know him more. He could be come crazy old man or some killer for all you know. Don't go off having sex with some guy you barley know... cause me and you both know you don't know him that well. You better stop and think girl before you go do something you'll regret in the future.