Hello I'm 15 years old and I was out with my friends the other week and had unprotected sex with a boy I'm scarred I'm pregnant because I am now 12 days late for my period. Please help me ! :(

Susan
There are a lot of things that you will hear when asking a question like this in a forum of this nature. Of course having unprotected sex can result in pregnancy, there are a lot of other things that can come out of it as well. I will ask you to do two things. Please speak to your mother, father, guardian or adult that you trust and tell them the truth. Go to the Dr. and get tested. First for pregnancy and second for sexual diseases. You're young and God willing have a very long life ahead of you. Please practice safe sex in the future, the life you save may be your own! Be blessed

I want to tell someone but what it makes them think of me different? Can I go to the doctors without my parents finding out?

I promise you that all parents have been where you are.
As a mother, I would be upset that you were too scared to come to me.
They will not think of you different, but it will only benefit you to have your parents involved, then you can be better educated to protect yourself and your body in the future.

How will I tell them ?

Personally, start with your mother.
Just open with telling her that you need to talk to her about something important.
Daddy's have a harder time with their baby girls growing up, so let Mom break it to him.
Do you have an older sister?

Yeah I do

If you are close, I would try her first, she could be a great ally in talking to your mother.

OK thanks il have a think about it.

Keep us posted.

The only thing you can do is take a pregnancy test or go to the doctors.
Then if you have the baby you need to file for child support against him.

How old was the boy?

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Originally Posted by ima_mommy15

well im 15 too and i am pregnant its not going to be hard you can do it we can shop online together you call me i call you we will have fun we can't think about the negitive side we know its a chance for bad things to happen but i just dont think about it if you want you cn call me ... my name is faith

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Inappropriate to post phone number - and after reading other posts, hope Child Welfare is available to step in. https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...ml#post1925725

Definitely not wise to post your phone number online Faith.

I'm sorry I was so upset with the mommy15 I failed to answer your question.
When you buy the pregnancy test,make sure you use first morning urine.
If you get up to pee at 4 than do it then.After you have slept for at least 5 or 6 hours.

Try to gage your urine stream and put the stick down mid stream.

I think you should be able to take a test tomorrow morning and you should get a result.

If there is anything I'm saying that you don't understand,let me know and I will try to help or the many people on here who are smart and kind will help.

There is always someone here to listen.

I know your scared,its scary but come back whenever you need a hand!

Good luck honey!

Thank you everyone. He was 17 and I told my sis and she got me a testing kit. I will do it tomorrow and let you know how it goes (:

I have deleted a post with personal data and several other posts who for some reason copied or quoted the poster,

It's true I'm pregnant! I knew it! What am I going to do now? :(:(:(

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Originally Posted by susanx94

it's true I'm pregant! I knew it! what am I going to do now? :(:(:(

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That's up to you.

You're 15, can you afford to support a child?

Did you tell your parents? What do they think?

Have you looked at all your options? Adoption, abortion, and keeping the baby?

You have a lot of thinking to do because no matter what you decide it will affect you for the rest of your life.

Well you are going to have to tell your mom and tell her if you want to keep it and pray for the best.

OMG... best of wishes to you. You have a lot ahead of you. Keep your head about you right now and be honest with your mther, father or guardian. This is far too serious not to let them in on it right away. There are a lot of health reasons you need to deal with this in a mature, honest manner. Keep us posted on your success