Okay this is embarrassing for me.

I keep having lesbian dreams. It's really starting to bother me. It happens at least 3 times a week.

They feel so real, and in my dream I like it- where in reality I'm straight and have never been bi-curious. I like men period.

However in my dream, I'm so into it. The things I do are too graphic for me to post- eek.

In those dreams, I always get things "done" to me-- but when I go return the oral favor, someone or something always interrupts me in my dreams, or I wake up.
Not only that, but in my dream I feel so angry or bothered that I've been interrupted, but I also wake up annoyed- then I realize what I was dreaming about so the emotion fades.

Also, it's always with a girl I make up in my head- she's no one I've met before... However, last night, it was a friend-- and now I'm bothered even more...

I would really like for those dreams to stop. I haven't watch porn in ages so I know that's not it.

::scratches head:: does this mean I'm a lesbian I just don't know it yet?

Help. :(

Any insight...

NOTE: I am not anti-homosexual.

Sarah

Often when a woman has dreams of another woman it is their alter ego or another aspect of yourself.
I would guess that this means that you are a go getter and accomplish things while maybe another part of you may not want to be doing some of those things.
In your life are you getting interrupted to go running for people and helping them when maybe you really would rather just be sitting back and relaxing or doing something for yourself?

It is some sort of feelings you are having about something that get interrupted.
May even be a dream career or school or something you want in life that you feel something keeps stopping you.

Mudweiser, I have seen your picture. You are an extremely attractive, sexy woman. With that being said, you have just made some of our members' dreams satisfying for the next few nights.

I have no idea what the lesbian dreams mean. I just wanted to say that.

Thank you and goodnight.

Dreams are just dreams. They don't always have a deeper meaning. Since they always have you on the receiving end I would guess that they're just manifestations of sexual acts you've experienced before, especially since the women are not ones you are familiar with. Also, I wouldn't worry too much about the fact that your friend ended up in the latest dream. It could be that your mind was just looking for a familiar face to anchor itself, or maybe a couple dreams or thoughts blended together. The fact that the dreams never progress to the point of you being the giver of pleasure says more than anything else. No matter how irritated it makes you feel your subconscious mind still wakes you up before your dream self can do anything. It's a concept or act that even your deepest subconscious can't let itself indulge in.

All that being said; just treat them as dreams. Would you be this worried if they were dreams about men, even if a male friend ended up being the focus in one? I would guess not. You'd just enjoy the pleasure you receive in the dreams and then let them go when you wake up. Dreams are usually just dreams.

Dreams do very often mean something. Its just that people think that their dream didn't make sense so they ignore it.

Just one example, last summer I wasn't doing anything and didn't have any income whatsoever. I kept having dreams that didn't make any sense. I looked up what the objects (cheese, bad meat, moldy bacon, etc... ) in the dreams represented and most all of them represented feeling unproductive.

Many of my other dreams have proven to be right too.

Thanks for all your responses. I feel a lot better now :)

I'm still a little bothered by them but I guess it could signify what N0Help said or it could just be a dream and I should just shrug it of as heath mentioned...

Sarah

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I'm still a little bothered by them but I guess it could signify what N0Help said

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In grad school we studied dreams and how they can be interpreted (especially a la Freud and Jung). My money is on Nohelp's reply to you. Faceless lesbian = alter ego, your other self, the yang to your yin; being interrupted is the important part of this dream. Now you have to figure out how being interrupted fits into your life and how it is making a difference.

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Originally Posted by hheath541

dreams are just dreams. they don't always have a deeper meaning. since they always have you on the receiving end i would guess that they're just manifestations of sexual acts you've experienced before, especially since the women are not ones you are familiar with. also, i wouldn't worry too much about the fact that your friend ended up in the latest dream. it could be that your mind was just looking for a familiar face to anchor itself, or maybe a couple dreams or thoughts blended together. the fact that the dreams never progress to the point of you being the giver of pleasure says more than anything else. no matter how irritated it makes you feel your subconscious mind still wakes you up before your dream self can do anything. it's a concept or act that even your deepest subconscious can't let itself indulge in.

all that being said; just treat them as dreams. would you be this worried if they were dreams about men, even if a male friend ended up being the focus in one? i would guess not. you'd just enjoy the pleasure you receive in the dreams and then let them go when you wake up. dreams are usually just dreams.

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What is your source? I was taught in College that repetitive dreams (and occasionally single dreams) DO have meaning.

Here's a source - An Online Guide To Dream Interpretation

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What is your source? I was taught in College that repetitive dreams (and occasionally single dreams) DO have meaning.

Here's a source - An Online Guide To Dream Interpretation

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I actually have studied dream interpretation to a fairly get degree, and do practice it in my own dreams sometimes. I even own a couple books on the subject, and have several websites bookmarked. I just don't agree with all the interpretations that are generally held to be true. Dreams are a manifestation of the unconscious mind, which means that symbolic representations are drawn from within our own mind. Just because a book or web site or professional says that something should mean one thing doesn't mean that it can't mean something completely different in your mind.

In this case I speak from personal experience. The repetitive dreams I have had have generally proven to be nothing more than dreams. My dreams, and the dreams of friends I have talked to, also tend to be more realistic than symbolic.

You may not agree with the interpretations but that does not mean dreams do not mean anything. You have to take the dream in the context as a whole and many other factors.

When people ask what the dream means and we give them some general idea of things it can mean it is then up to the OP to tell what the context of the dream ''felt like''and take what we said and see if they think it applies.

Hello Sarah:

I don't think it means anything... I dream that I can fly all the time... But, I found out that I couldn't...

excon

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Hello Sarah:

I don't think it means anything... I dream that I can fly all the time... But, I found out that I couldn't....

excon

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That's because you don't know what it symbolizes Ex
Think about it you of all people should know that flying means

Any or all of these...

*you are high like a kite -puffin that stuff too much??

*that you feel really good about something in your life.

*You have confidence in what you are doing or where you are in life and you know you have freedom to live a little now.

*Things that seemed risky or dangerous before, now in the flying dream, seem so simple to achieve.

*You are likely very proud of an achievement at work or at home, and life is good.

Now you still want to deny you *FLY* Ex????