I left my husband 3 years ago due to crystal meth addiction which he still has and he's selling it too. We have a 4 year old son together which I have full custody. He just had his 5th kid, my son is the 3rd. All different women. I haven't even been with anyone since I left him. How do I get over these feelings of hatred and jealousy. I know we can't have a life together because I won't accept the way he lives but he acts like father of the year with his new son and leaves my son and his other kids in the dust. I just have so much hatred towards him.

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Originally Posted by Leaving husband

I left my husband 3 years ago due to crystal meth addiction which he still has and he's selling it too. We have a 4 year old son together which I have full custody. He just had his 5th kid, my son is the 3rd. All different women. I haven't even been with anyone since I left him. How do I get over these feelings of hatred and jealousy. I know we can't have a life together because I won't accept the way he lives but he acts like father of the year with his new son and leaves my son and his other kids in the dust. I just have so much hatred towards him.

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Well it takes other ways for different people too help get over someone like a husband or a boyfreind. I can tell you what I did too help get over mine, I was married too him for 6 years. HE lied cheated and everything else on me. I bought a note book. And everyday I wrote in that note book of all the bad things that he has done too me and too make me cry, everyday I would write a page and lable it like for istance, if he cheated on you more then once, on the first page put the first girl's name on the top, and then write about how it made you felt, what it put you through and why it hurt you so much. And then everyday write about something else that he has done too you.. like for instants the meth, put that down and write down everything he done, what it has put you through, what it has done too hurt your baby. And after a while of you keep reading what all he has done too you then you can get over him. Be strong and don't let him in your life with him on drugs and selling them, it can cause you too loose your baby so just be strong and you can get over him.. Good luck!

I feel for you.hatred eats you up.you have a wonderful child.try to concentrate on the love you feel for him.and try to let go.you deserve happiness

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Your moving soon, and what ever he does with his life is his problem. You are angry now, but your new life will allow you to move on, in time. Worry about your own son, and not his, because his life will catch up to him, and his son will suffer, unfortunately. You know this because, you know he is headed down a dead end street.

Pray for the poor b@stards, and his kids, someone has to.