I have been married for 7yrs now, no kids and we live with my parents. We have gone through many ups and downs together and we are in our early thirties and still argue about the same things we did when we were first together... I was fat when my husband married me and I still am with an extra maybe 45 pounds. My weight was never an issue and lately it seems to be. He will call me fat and lazy, tell me I am not ambitious enough for him. Tell me I am the reason we don't get anywhere in life. He says he loves me, but how can he say those things if he truly loves me? If we are in an argument he throws his wedding band across the room and says he has had it, he needs to get out of this marriage. I tell him that if he is not happy he should just leave, but he never does. I feel like this is a never ending cycle but I just don't know what to to, it has been almost 10yrs of my life... I tell him he is being emotionally abusive and he says whatever, no you aren't. But when I am crying he says I am a cry baby and crying doesn't solve anything, blah blah blah. People, I need some real advice here, I cannot talk to my family about it because they will cast judgement. So, I figured I would try here... hope to hear from you all.. and thanks!