This is quick one...
Met a cute girl few days ago while out with some friends during the day, then ran into her again the next night at the bar. We had good time, went back to hers and yada yada. Exchanged numbers, I called couple days later and left short message. No response couple days. Just wondering what people think.. Normal vaiant vs she's not interested? I prob won't re call/text for like week or so if I'm still interested, does this sound reasonable?
Thanks

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Originally Posted by quiteunsure

does this sound reasonable?

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Really depends on the content of the message that you left, but returning a call is the classy thing to do even if she isn't interested in anything further and it really ain't all that hard, y'know. I wouldn't contact her again, balls in her court.

If she's interested she will contact you eventually , if she doesn't contact you I'd forget about her.

Don't trip, she may be busy, or she may not be interested.

Maybe you were a one night stand, and she used you for sex, and went about her business. Regardless, go about yours.

Don't look too much into buddy, especially even going as far as posting on this site for an answer, makes me think you're a little quick to taking a liking to this girl, just something to think about it, take it slow and easy... good things will happen.

She's not come back to you,but she could be away, on holiday or similar.
If you left a straight foreword message asking her to phone or whatever, then I think you should just leave it a while.

I suppose you did have the correct phone number... just a thought

Like the others said, if she was interested, she would respond to your message.

But I would say if she doesn't get back to you in a week or so, you can try again one more time just in case she never got the message. If still no response, then you can forget about her.