Hi, my name is Skryne and I am a heartbreakaholic. Meself and my ex arranged to meet up a few days ago. We had been going out for 6 years and went on a break in April and broke up 6/7 weeks ago, all her idea. During the break/breakup we had VERY little contact. She has also going through a lot of stress in her life (parents marriage on rocks, relationship with father soured).
Anyway we met up and went for a meal together. All was fine and dandy, caught up with news, had a few laughs, everything was relaxed. I then had the bright idea of having a beer with my meal and it went to me head. Even though it was'nt part of my gameplan I brought up the break up. Long story short she says she has felt stronger without me and thinks we have different paths in the future. She asked if we could be friends and I said we were friends but she broke that. She then said we were never platonic friends and I told her I still had feelings for her and that couldn't work. Then she said we could be friends in the future but I said I doubt it. I then told her how the way she treated me prior to the break and during it was inexcusable and made me angry.
She went on to say she wouldn't find anyone as good as me in the future and I told her she would'nt as no one would put up with the crap I did. Then she said she hoped I find someone better and I told her it wouldn't be hard. I said all these things in a calm way without raising my voice or swearing.
The meal finished up and I gave her a lift home. On the way back she said maybe in the future in a few years we could get back together and I told her that was nonsense. I got the impression she's confused and putting up a front.