Hi, I had been married seven years, but a week ago I kick my husband out the house because he was going out at night very often and he was wasting a lot of money at the same time. I have 2 small children and I don't work. I asked him to come back home but he refuses! I had beged and cried but he doesn't want to! I don't know what to do! I wish some one could tell me what to do?

Well first you should ask yourself if this is something you really want to live with, especially having two children you wouldn't want to put them through that, do you want him back due to financial needs or you really want him back in your life?

Do you even want him to come back? You kicked him out for a reason.

From his perspective, why would he want to come back? Just so that you can kick him out again?

If you wanted to work things out with him, be more mature about it. Talk things out and work things out together.

At this point, there's nothing you can do. He'll come back if he wants to. Otherwise, accept the consequences of your decision for kicking him out in the first place.

You've kicked him out for a valid reason.

As you said, he wastes a lot of money which instead he could have saved or invested.

I'm not telling you that he's not the perfect one for you, everyone makes mistake.

Give him time to realize his mistake, what is he actually doing. Don't be dependent on him; think for once about your children.

He might not be a good idol, example for your children but what you did as well is not.

This might make an impact on your children, be cautious.

The best possible way to sort things out is a meeting, take him out, somewhere he would feel comfortable, he'd feel home.

He does love his children too, so for their sake he'll realize his mistakes and will get straighten.

If he loves you, realizes his mistake, he'll be back..

"LOVE IS NOT SOMETHING THAT YOU CAN LIVE WITH BUT IT'S SOMETHING YOU CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT"

Hi mannyange,

You had obviously come to the end of the road with him and consequently blew, which is understandable.

However, I think now you must sort out your finances for your children's sakes, I would leave him alone for a while, don't beg or plead, he's probably wallowing in that.

I am certain that once you stop asking him and things calm down, he will be wondering why and will then come running.