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  • Oct 21, 2006, 08:15 PM
    godson12
    Scared about the first time
    Here is the situation, I am a virgin, and I have been dating this girl for about 3 months now. She is more sexually experienced then me. She wants to have sex, but when I am with her she waits for me to make a move. I don't know what to do. I should also mention that I have never had this problem, Although I am a virgin, I have had no problem before getting as close as you can sex without having it. I think it is because I really love her, and I don't want to mess it up. I just need to know what to do for that first move.
  • Oct 22, 2006, 12:22 PM
    Horsechic28681
    If you ask me, I think you should wait till your 100% ready. If she won't wait till your ready, then she doesn't care about you. Im a female and personally If my bf/fiance or whatever wasn't ready, I'de wait... and so should she. And you haven't been together for a long time so I'de wait, to know if she is the one for you...
  • Oct 22, 2006, 12:25 PM
    J_9
    I agree with the answer you have godson. But you have other things you should get "checked out" first.

    Please do not have six with this girl until you find out about that problem on your other post.
  • Oct 24, 2006, 01:47 AM
    Krs
    Does she know you are a virgin?
    Have you spoken about it before?
  • Nov 2, 2006, 01:13 AM
    puppetkicks
    Obviously if you were ready you wouldn't feel scared and if she is sexually experienced, maybe the reason you feel scared is because in the back of your mind you are uncontiously thinking about all of the STD's there are out there and a condom does not guard you from them and in some females they don't know they have it until they are tested. It is always a good choice for people with new partners that have been sexually active to get tested for STD's before they have sex because it's better to be safe than sorry.

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