Hi I am 24yr old and my girl friend is 28 yrs old.we have been love for 6 yrs.our relation is very strong,but sometimes I feel bad.when she gets angry she does n't receive my mobile,and respond my Messages.she even doesn't talk to me for three months when she in angry mode.when she mollifies her anger,she calls me back & send some lovely Messages.but this 2 to 3 months very painful for me.so I want to know that is this her love for me or anything.

I would say, if you ignore your significant other for more than 1 week, it's pretty much over already. The fact that she's ignoring you for 2-3 months at the time means that she's not taking this relationship very seriously.

I think it's time to make a clean break and find someone else.

Have more self-esteem and don't put up with someone who doesn't take the relationship seriously.

That's not love, that's her being a brat, and you allowing it.

Months on end-no-if you re with someone and LOVE them you don't ignore them for months.please move on.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Thats not love, thats her being a brat, and you allowing it.

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Don't let her play mind games with you. If she knows that you will take her back after she ignores you for 2-3 months, then she's not going to have a problem ignoring you again.

Until you stand up for yourself, she's not going to change.

But realistically, it's better if you found someone else. Learn from your mistakes. Don't let someone push you around like that. A relationship works both ways. It takes two people to make it work. Both people involved have to work hard in the relationship to make it stronger.

Holy crap man I thought I was the only one that had to deal with that man. I had to deal with that for awhile, but after dealing with it for awhile I talked to her about it, I thought that just letting it slide would do the job. But after talking with her I found out that she was going through some issues with her dad and after talking through it and figuring out why she would shut me out then all of a sudden be all nice. It just showed me that all I needed to do was stay by her side and help her through her obsticules. And after awhile she came to me and said that for me to stay with her and deal with her shuting me out it really meant a lot and were better then ever. So through my experience I would stay with her talk to her and see what it is that causes her to shut you out, cause she might be going through something that she wants to deal with on her own, and in doing so will help her become a stronger person. So if I were you talk to her and try and work through it, cause if you can get through it then it'll be the best thing for the relationship. Good luck

Why waste your time. Move on with your life

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Thats not love, thats her being a brat, and you allowing it.

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Thanks brother

Best of luck.