We dated & she went on vacation for 4 days and met somebody there.
I met this really great girl about a month and a half ago.We started dating,and everything got really great... we talked to each other every day,she communitcated things to me that she had never communicated to anyone else before.. genuinely dug each other and very very comfortable with each other,made plans to do certain things,etc.(also,as a side note,we are both 40 yrs. Of age.. not high school kids)... she went on vacation to CO. to visit some friends that she always does at this time of the year... We made dinner the night before she left,I took her to the airport early in the morning and she gave me her car to watch for the 4 days.. asked me to pick her up the day she returned. She sent me pictures and textes for the first two days she was there... then they stopped... when she returned,she seemed distant... a week went by,we went out several times everything seemed fine... romance,etc... then the last night,she told me that she had met somebody in CO. and that they were the perfect person... she was with them for 2-3 days and hooked up with them over that weekend... she said that they have talked to each other every day since she got back(which is ,like, a week) and that they plan on going to meet in New Orleans and be together... This all sounds crazy... I don't want to lose her,because what we had built so far was the best,even according to her... what do I do?