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Get rid of some teen

I am being troubled by a teen. As I am a teen myself I do understand some things about her. I can't get rid of her. She just won't leave me alone. I don't think she can really see that I don't want to be friends with her after what she did.

What did she do?

Yeah,is she being mean or what?Or is she just annoying?

Tell her you don't want to be friends.
Block her from MySpace/Facebook.
Don't hang out around her and her friends.
Don't talk to her.
Stay away from where you know her to be.

Seriously, teens don't have a lot of power, it is fairly easy to get away from them if you really want.

And please answer the above questions.

If you really want to know what she did well then ill tell you. She kept calling me names,coming to my house and making my life a misery. When I went to sleep she'd put make-up on my face and nail varnish on my teeth. One night I even had to stay up and make sure she didn't do anything to me I was that scared. She used to tell me to do her jobs and my high school that were hers not myn. And if I didn't I'd be really scared of what she would do. I'm that type of sensitive person. I had to be her best friend. She was practically torturing me. Then when I said I didn't want to be friends she said "you can't do that! I'm more popular than you" please help

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Originally Posted by HelpinHere

Tell her you don't want to be friends.
Block her from MySpace/Facebook.
Don't hang out around her and her friends.
Don't talk to her.
Stay away from where you know her to be.

Seriously, teens don't have a lot of power, it is fairly easy to get away from them if you really want.

And please answer the above questions.

Thanks that's really helpful!

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Originally Posted by emsy101pink

If you really want to know what she did well then ill tell you. She kept calling me names,comming to my house and making my life a misery. When I went to sleep she'd put make-up on my face and nail varnish on my teeth. One night I even had to stay up and make sure she didn't do anything to me I was that scared. She used to tell me to do her jobs and my high school that were hers not myn. And if I didnt i'd be really scared of what she would do. I'm that type of sensitive person. I had to be her best friend. She was practically torturing me. Then when I said I didn't wanna be friends she said "you can't do that! I'm more popular than you" please help

How is she getting into your house at night while you sleep? How do you stay asleep when someone is putting nail varnish on your teeth?

Try locking your door. Heck, call the police if she breaks into your house at night.

None of this makes sense.

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Originally Posted by emsy101pink

If you really want to know what she did well then ill tell you. She kept calling me names,comming to my house and making my life a misery. When I went to sleep she'd put make-up on my face and nail varnish on my teeth. One night I even had to stay up and make sure she didn't do anything to me I was that scared. She used to tell me to do her jobs and my high school that were hers not myn. And if I didnt i'd be really scared of what she would do. I'm that type of sensitive person. I had to be her best friend. She was practically torturing me. Then when I said I didn't wanna be friends she said "you can't do that! I'm more popular than you" please help

Are you saying you would invite her over to spend the night KNOWING she would mess with you once you fell asleep? And she would get you to do her chores and homework (at least that's what I'm thinking 'jobs and my high school that were hers not myn' means) by asking? Was she threatening you with something?

I had to. She'd practically ask me if she could come round. I was scared she would do something if I didn't ask my parents. Like I said I'm that type of sensitive person.

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Originally Posted by emsy101pink

I had to. She'd practically ask me if she could come round. I was scared she would do something if I didn't ask my parents. Like I said i'm that type of sensitive person.

That's not sensitive, that's manipulatable... (sp?)
Say "no" or you'll never get over it. Everyone can tell you that, but only you can be the one to say it.

I smell a troll. :(

I did in the end. But now she just won't leave me alone! She keeps asking for friend requests on bebo , etc. She keeps coming up to me and then I walk away. I don't think she quite gets the message that I don't want to be her friend.

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Originally Posted by emsy101pink

I had to. She'd practically ask me if she could come round. I was scared she would do something if I didn't ask my parents. Like I said i'm that type of sensitive person.

You didn't HAVE to. It doesn't sound like she ever actually threatened you. You created a situation that could have been easily avoided if you had simply used some common sense.

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Originally Posted by emsy101pink

I did in the end. But now she just wont leave me alone! She keeps asking for friend requests on bebo and etc. She keeps comming up to me and then I walk away. I dont think she quite gets the message that I dont want to be her friend.

Block her on everything online and continue to ignore her. If that doesn't work eventually then you need to seek direct adult involvement. Get your parents, her parents, teachers, or even law enforcement involved if it comes to that.