I've read a lot of questions about boyfriends and their porn watching habits, but absolutely nothing that relates to my situation. Is it weird that my boyfriend met a porn star last year at Comic Con, then (I guess liked her so much) went back this year to meet her again? Last year was extremely awkward and uncomfortable, and he said he wouldn't do it again. This year, when I reminded him of this fact, he denied it, saying he didn't remember saying that. He knew I was uncomfortable about him talking with porn stars (especially this one), but he did it anyway, and he kind of snuck off to do it. I was waiting in line to do something and he said he was going to sit down and then walk around a little bit. After around 10 minutes he comes back and shows me his new picture. Great. I've been trying to deal with this for the past almost week, and now he's talking to the same star on twitter, and she's been replying. I know people say it's fine if boyfriends add porn starts to their facebook/myspace/twitter/whatever but they always say something along the lines of "Oh, it's not like he's going to meet her or anything." But he has. They've talked. He even gave her a present of the Harry Potter bag that he was supposed to save for me. I don't even know how to feel anymore. What do you think? What do I do?
Thanks.

She is a star... he is a fan.

I don't think you have much to worry about.

She has to cater to her fans so they will buy her material. That is why she attends those events and that is why she even has twitter... for SALES! It's all about the money. The fact that he "met" her means nothing here.. it's not like he met her on his terms somewhere. It was a meet & greet... public relations... that's probably it. The more she makes him feel like she likes him, the more money he will spend. Just like a dancer at a strip club. And I am sure she treats EVERY other fan exactly the same way.

So he met a porn star at comic con (twice)for lets say what 2 minutes (so a total of 4). Gave her a Harry Potter bag (which I am SURE she still has) probably said to her I love your work she said Thanks cutie (which she said to the guy before and guy after him) Got her autograph and came back to you. Are you jealous of the 4 total minutes he "spent" with her. I don't get this question

I know how you feel. My boyfriend was merely *thinking* of seeing Brianna Frost at the local Castle Boutique and I really got pissed. I think that's something for single guys to do, because in reality, only single guys should be interested in porn. I know people say "it's healthy" for all men to look at porn but if you have the real thing right there.. C'mon.

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Originally Posted by froggyt0es

only single guys should be interested in porn.

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As an unsingle female I wonder what it says that I like porn.

I'm not single, I'm interested in porn. Not seeing the issue here? I guess my fiancé has self confidence and knows that it's just an actress in a movie

My brother in law is in Vegas for the Consumer Electronics Show this week.Every year CES just happens to run the same week the Adult Entertainment Expo is in Vegas. She was so mad about this. I had to explain to her that the porn chicks aren't running around the stress of Vegas humping any and every guy they can find. Odds are he will never see or talk to any of them. I find it strange that some girls (like my sister)really think porn chicks will just have sex with any guy that is walking down the street.

I wonder what it says when the op hasn't been back since 'she' posted in July 2009. :)

Guys,OP's not posted since July last year.. .