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My close guy friend and I sort of have benefits to help build toward a relationship. We cuddle all the time, but he mentioned that he wished that I was a little sexual with the cuddling. I'm not really sure how to be sexual while cuddling. Just a little bit but not touching his male parts. Help?
Thanks.
Xoxo.
Since his request is rather vague,you need to ask him.
I do think he is hoping for more than just a little sex.
He is most likely hoping to be a friend with benefits.
If you are such close friends it should be second nature to be open and honest and simply ask him.
I had asked him and he got embarrassed and stopped talking about it.
I think it is hard to explain. Like I can just sense when somebody hugs me, or kisses my check or even shakes my hand if it is done in a sexual meaning way or not.
I would be careful about trying to get sexual hugging him though because it could lead him on or make him get carried away wanting more.
Maybe it is best he got embarrassed and dropped the subject... at least for now
I used to have kind of the sae thing with one of my guy friends, and we cuddled only, never kisseed, but it got more sexual when we like touched each other very smoothly to give the other chills, or blow in the ear..
That's my advice, but that went really bad for me cause he broke my heart, but, you shold try it.. lol :p
What I do with my loved one is I stroke his sides and outer thighs. His face and neck and play with his ear. Or rub circles on his back. That's what he likes. But when we spoon and he gently rubs my hip in circles I get really excited.
He probably wants you to touch his man-part. Kiss him. Rub yourself on him.
Point is he wants more than cuddling.
Sarah
Lol ummm yeaaa.Quote:
Originally Posted by mudweiser
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Originally Posted by mudweiser
Anyone can se that in a million miles, he wants more than cuddling, and he wants you to take the lead.
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