I've never been here before, need advise on how to deal with it.
I am a member of a local mommys group online, we get together with our kids, do mom nights out without the kids, etc. I have met almost all of the ladies on this webiste message board in person, and I like all of them, and they seem to like me.
I babysit for one of them, and she was telling me to be careful because she was told by someone (she didn't tell me who and I respect that) has told her that she should find a new babysitter because of something I said that made her worry.
Now. I admit, my parenting style may not be the same as everyone else's. But I ALWAYS respect the parent I am babysitting for. I always use HER parenting style with her kids. And while difficult to use 3 different parenting skills at once (my daughter, my neighbor, and this lady) it has yet to cause me any trouble.
I'm hurt and confused, and most of all, curious to know what I said or did to make this person, whom ever she is, think that something was wrong with me...
I'm not sure how to deal with this :( has anyone delt with this before? Any advise? I really don't feel comfratable posting a public message about it, if I knew who it was I woud PM her about it. But I don't know.