I'm pregnant with a drunk abusive husband I can't find but I miss like hell and wish I could find. His name is p and he means the world to me. We have 2 babies and all I want is to find him. I love him and never have I betrayed him like he chooses to believe. Please help me bring my family back together. I know we can work it out. If you have any clue how to find this man please his wife and children need him

He's drunk and abusive? Consider yourself free. Your children shouldn't be surrounded by abuse.

I love my husband. He's abusive and cruel and has left me but I still love him. All I want to do is find him because we're pregnant again and we need him. His friends have him convinced I'm a whore when I'm not I waited over a year on him when he was in jail and then came home to him when he got out. He continued to abuse me but not as bad until his prison buddies convinced him he was better off without his family. He's changed a lot and so have I. I Thought our marriage was getting better. Now I'm pregnant and he's gone. I want to die. Help me find my baby P

My husband P in Kansas is wanted. I Love this man with everything I have, never cheated on him when he went to jail the 2nd time and have longed for him ever since he left me last month. I miss him. I need him. His prison buddies have him convinced that I'm just this horrible woman and I'm not. We have a baby on the way and nothing more matters to me then my husband. I love him. What do I do?

Well your abusive husband is not the best thing for your new baby.

I understand that you are upset and I have seen your other post about this same situation. On top of a difficult experience, you have the complication of hormones in overdrive with your pregnancy.

Your relationship was toxic and now you need assistance in seeing that you can be better off without the toxicness in your life. Do you have family or friends that you can contact in this time of need?

You can't save anybody
I can understand your wanting to know where he is because of the baby but why do you want an abusive relationship.
You say he changed. How is that? Because he hits you less often or he doesn't yell at you in as bad of a tone?
Abuse is abuse and there is no excuse.

You aren't going to die without him.
Go to child support court after the baby is born and they might be able to track him down for child support.

Please wake up and realize that you don't need an abuser to make your life worth living.

If he were so right for you he wouldn't have gone believing his buddies over you and leaving without taking the opportunity to work things out.

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Take it easy. You've been through a lot.

As you have pointed out he was abusive, yet you still feel the need to depend on him. But what you really need to do is distance yourself from such an abusive person and surround yourself with loving people.

Go to your friends and family for support. People who care about you. Furthermore, you should strongly consider seeing a counsellor or a therapist to help you cope with all these traumatizing events.

But you have to believe that you will get through this. It's just a bump on the road, just need to get over the hump.

If this is a real post and the poster is serious...


I suggest you seek counseling, it sounds to me as if you can use it. I know how you feel, my daughters father was very abusive and he left me. I thought it was the end of my life and I was depressed for 6 months.

Now I am with my hsuband and life couldn't be better. It was hard to get past my ex. But I did it and you can do it too!

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Hopefully you do get over your codepency and get counseling.