I am 14 years old. I have knowen this guy since sk .he is a skater boy I am just a girl. When he is with his friends he can be a real jerk but when I am alone with him he is an amazing person to be around. We spent a lot of time togther groing up. We never hung out, out side of school. But we wer both exzemt from french so we went to my schools chapel and spent sooo much time togther he told me a lot about himself and I told him a lot about me but over the years I developed feelings for him. I have liked many guys before but this one is different I feel something sooo special I can hardley describe how amazing this feeling is. It has gotten to the point where I think about him all the time and I wonder if he ever thinks about me. Now we are in high school we had 2 classes togther 1 semester but second semester we dident have aney this is the first time we haven't been in the same class since sk. I want to tell him how I feel so badley but I am not shure how to . I keep thinking what if he ses eww or flips out. We have a really good friendship and I wouldenmt want to ruin it by asking a queshtion. But I don't want to go on my whole life wondering if he ever felt something back.
Dose aneyone have aney advice for me? Because I'm stuck!

First of all you are not JUST a girl.
Send him a little friendship card that isn't all mushy but rather simple or even one of the kind that are more like humor and include a note that says I miss you in my classes and have good memories of times we spent together. Then see how he responds.

Is he still being the jerk when he is around his friends or has he outgrown that?

I agree with nohelp, you are not JUST a girl. You're an amazing person who deserves to be happy.

If he hates you, he is not worth your time. And further more, you deserve better than a two face jerk who doesn't treat you nice in front of his 'friends'

I agree with everything said here. Don't think of yourself as "just a girl" I'm sure you are more than that.

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you deserve better than a two faced jerk who doesn't treat you nice in front of his 'friends'

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I totally agree with this statement. Why bother if he is mean to you? Trust me, there are plenty of other really nice guys out there who will care about your feelings and treat you nice in front of his friends. You don't need this guy. I understand that you might have had a good friendship at one time but maybe you need to move on and talk to some other people. Don't be hard on yourself, it's not your fault. :)

I agree with everything everyone has said already.

Thanks for not using txt spk. Your spelling could use some work, but it is a welcome reprieve from the other. :)

Thanks, also, for being mature enough and not saying "I love him". If you haven't realized it yet, you do not yet know what love is. You may like him a whole lot, but you have not fully grown. You must truly be yourself, and love yourself, before you can love another.

If he's even worth your time, he needs to always be nice to you, especially in front of his "friends".

Also, just tell him how you feel. Being the guy in this situation a few times in my school life, I know that it could never hurt your friendship, unless this guy isn't as nice as you think he is.

Thanks to all of you I am glad there is nice people in this world to give me advice. I am glad that I can get everyons point of vew it really makes me do some thinking.

Please use spell check as it is getting very painful to read what you write.

Sorry

How do I put spell check on?

Look under the box where you write there is another little box that says spell check. Hit that box and you will start spell check.

Telsa: I know you are new, so I'm not going to jump down your throat, but please use the edit button instead of posting multiple times in a row like that.

Anyway, to use the spell check, there is a little button labeled [Spell Check] in on the bottom, and another that looks like https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/amhd_i...r/spelling.gif on the top right after you hit [Go Advanced]. They both work. However, some browsers require a download to use the https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/amhd_i...r/spelling.gif one.

Oh I see it now thanks

You are very welcome

Look ask him if he wants to go out. If he says yes then it will be great. But if he says no then oh well at least you tried! It's better then just sitting there and constantly worring about this. You never know how perfect something could be!