Me and this guy liked each other but he doesn't want a serious relationship.. I felt that he doesn't care that much to me I mean he doesn't text me or call me at least to say hi... I got mad and told him just forget about everything with me and he replied "ok".we don't talked to each other since then even looked each other is stolen.. I mean when I catched him and he catched me looking to each other were just looking away.. it hurts me because I have feelings for this guy.. then he saw me talking to this other guy (his friend).. he asked this guy if I'm flirting with him.so what does it mean then? I don't know what to do... advice please

I only have one, well two, things to say here. One, head games are for high school, if you are IN high school, you better get used to this, most high school relationships revolve around games.

Two, if you are NOT in high school, there's only one other thing to point out. If he DOESN'T want a relationship, and you DO, he's not the guy for you. I'm sorry but pack up and move on. I've come to realize that guys are, IN GENERAL, honest about what they want or don't want. If he says he's not interested in dating, then he probably isn't. Find a guy who wants what YOU want.

He already knows how you feel about him. So if he wanted to pursue a relationship with you, he will let you know. So no need to analyze his actions.

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I really like this guy at work we hang out a few times.. I like to kissed him and just hug him every time when were together... he 's always on my mind and thinking of him.. we are not together but I like his company so much that I want to be near him every time.. I like him a lot or maybe more the problem is I can't tell him all this feelings inside because I'm afraid I might scare him away I'm thinking about express it through a song... so help me out here what song would it be ?

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he's always on my mind and thinking of him

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Try "You're always on my mind" by Willie Nelson
You Were Always on My Mind, Willie Nelson, Lyrics, Music On My Mind

If you don't like that one, they have plenty on THIS SITE.

Good Luck!

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i really like this guy at work we hang out a few times ..i like to kissed him and just hug him every time when were together... he 's always on my mind and thinking of him.. we are not together but i like his company so much that i want to be near him everytime .. i like him a lot or maybe more the problem is i can't tell him all this feelings inside because im afraid i might scare him away im thinking about express it thru a song ... so help me out here what song would it be ?

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It could be anysong new or old . Thank you

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it could be anysong new or old . thank you

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Well then, how about the song Helpinhere suggested. Did you take a look at the site he posted?

Two words
It's over

If all he cared was to say OK then he wasn't all that interested don't waste your time.

That is why texting sucks, no emotion.
I mean, I can say "okay" to be just be plain and melodramatic, or I can say "okay" in a way to mean I'm trying to get the other person to inquire deeper, or I can say "okay" as in asking, what are you talking about.

I'm sure some of it is where I come from, and the different ways to use "okay" but I also noticed there is no punctuation, or anything else.

I agree, he most likely doesn't care, but there is a slim chance that he was saying it in a tone as if to say "Umm, okay if that's what you want, start over?" That could reasonably be translated in person, with facial expressions, tone of voice, body language, but not over text.
That is the problem with today's communication... *sigh*

Why its so hard to forget him... why his trying to make me jealous? He really acting no care at all even thou he told me he cares... why I'm so affected in all of this...

Just forget about him. Ignore him. Pretend he doesn't exists.

Go make new friends. Meet new people. Let him live his life the way he wants and you go live yours without him in it.

An update:: right now were not talking at all.. he's avoiding me I don't know why? He always hang out with this girl that likes him long time ago now there were talking and I think going out.. I'm a little bit bothered but what can I do if he don't like anymore right... I just have to let them go and do what they wanted to do... im tired of this drama I just want to go back to my old life calm and quiet no heart problem... it will take some time because they're both my co-worker I see them most of the time... but its kind of hard

Yeah it will be hard but realize that when you really don't know someone that well you start seeing them the way you want to imagine them to be and so you are falling for what you think they are rather than who they really are.

Well were not talking at all for almost 3 weeks now... my feelings for him right now is gone although he's always will be special to me. I'm not mad at him anymore or even care if I sees him with that girl.. im OK now and realize things that if its not meant for you , its not for you.. its sad we have to end it this way that we were not talking to each other. Its hard because I miss his company and the way he makes me laugh... I want us to be just plain friends at least if he still want me to be his friend..
Do you think that its time to make the first move to say hi and talk to him? Is it a good idea? Or just leave it the way we are right now

Leave it alone, and let him do his thing, and you do yours, and stay out of each others business.