I don't know what to do I just broke up with this girl I dated for though and a half years and at first it was all right because my friends said she was cheating on me I didn't believe them they were just saying that cause they wanted her but couldn't have her unless we broke up, the reason I broke up with her is because I moved to a different state and before we broke up I was calling her everyday you know like a good boyfriend but then you know it was like she never had time to talk to me. I am about to take a trip back to my old city and I am not sure if I should go back out with her or not even see her again I still love her and I still want her but I heard from her bro that she has another b/friend I guess I'm just jealous but I think I'm going to take her away from him any advice.

Your question is very difficult to answer, and perhaps, it cannot be answered by anyone on this site to the extent that you need. We can only offer our opinions on the matter. In such a matter, there is no right answer.

If you really love this girl (as I suspect you do), then you should let her know. Chances are that the feeling is mutual after three and a half years of dating. If your breakup was not that long ago, the new man will not have had enough time to truly win her heart.

My biggest piece of advice is to talk to her and to be open. Women love a man who is honest, especially concerning his feelings. Still, love is not an exact science. I could be wrong, and the number of variables surrounding the situation are astounding, but (I think this is important) you should do it. You only have one life to live, and if you let the woman of your dreams get away from you, you will always regret it. Trust me, it's better to go out on a limb and get struck down than to sit at the foot of the tree watching from a distance. After all, even if she doesn't go for you, you'll have gotten valuable experience for future relationships, experience that can teach you far more than I can.

Good luck to you!

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Originally Posted by King Ali

I dont know what to do I just broke up with this girl I dated for tho and a half years and at first it was alright because my friends said she was cheating on me I didnt believe them they were just saying that cause they wanted her but couldnt have her unless we broke up, the reason I broke up with her is because i moved to a different state and before we broke up i was calling her everyday you know like a good boyfriend but then you know it was like she never had time to talk to me. I am about to take a trip back to my old city and I am not sure if i should go back out with her or not even see her again i still love her and i still want her but I heard from her bro that she has another b/friend i guess im just jealous but i think im gonna take her away from him any advice.

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Well take my advice. I tottaly think you need to talk to her!