My husband wants me to grab the top of his head when he preforms oral sex, but I am not sure if I should?
I would feel like I am being to aggressive , but is this something that some men like ?

I'm not entirely sure what you mean. But how old are you? And ask a different way, I don't understand the way your wording it.

If he has asked you to do it than why are you reluctant?

Does it matter what other men want?

I wouldn't think so - it's your husband, he wants it - just do it!

My other half loves it, I think a lot of guys do.

Why are you having doubts as to whether it is OK to do or not?

Do you have problems with being assertive during sex?

Yes, men love it. Go for it. Treat his head like handlebars, just don't rip his ears off.

It's up to you. If you feel uncomfortable doing it, then don't do it. He wants to know you are enjoying what he is doing.

Thank you for rewording hon :) makes much more sense to me now :)


If your uncomfratable in anyway with something DO NOT do it, and TALK to him about it. Talk talk talk.

It could simply be his preference. It may turn him on. However he may also be perfectly willing to pass on it if you are uncomfratable. He is your husband hon :) he loves you. You've got to trust him and have faith that he will be understanding of your feelings.

Good luck :)

Thank you all for taking the time to answer my question . I do appreciate it and I will take all the advice given .

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Originally Posted by jmjoseph

Yes, men love it. Go for it. Treat his head like handlebars, just don't rip his ears off.

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That was funny , thanks it was good to get a man's opinion .

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Originally Posted by shazamataz

My other half loves it, I think a lot of guys do.

Why are you having doubts as to whether it is ok to do or not?

Do you have problems with being assertive during sex?

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Sometimes I do worry about being to assertive during sex, but I am working on it.

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Originally Posted by Gemini54

If he has asked you to do it than why are you reluctant?

Does it matter what other men want?

I wouldn't think so - it's your husband, he wants it - just do it!

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No it does not matter what other men want . I just wanted to know if this is a thing that men like.

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Originally Posted by jenniepepsi

thank you for rewording hon :) makes much more sense to me now :)


if your uncomfratable in anyway with something DO NOT do it, and TALK to him about it. talk talk talk.

it could simply be his preference. it may turn him on. however he may also be perfectly willing to pass on it if you are uncomfratable. he is your husband hon :) he loves you. youve got to trust him and have faith that he will be understanding of your feelings.

good luck :)

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Thank you .

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Originally Posted by puppydoggie

yeah men like it, coz it shows him u like what hes doing if your grabbing his head- that u want more, it will make him feel like hes good at it (even if hes not)

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Good point appreciate it thank you.

If you don't feel comfortable doing it then just tell him.
He should respect your wishes.

If you don't like being assertive there is nothing wrong with that but it just sounds like he is encouraging you to open new doors and try new things.

If you feel comfortable enough to do it then try it, you might like it and if you don't like it, just say so.

If he asked for it, it means he likes it... if you get too aggressive he'll tell you. Give it a try, may feel uncomfortible at first... maybe after a few times it will feel natural for you, if it still doesn't then just talk to him and explain it.

You don't have to be aggressive about it, if it makes you uncomfortable.

Start with something simpler a compromise until you are more comfortable. Play with his hair, massage his head, get involved.

Hello H:

You know what else he'd like?? While you're pulling his head into your business, HUMP his face.

excon

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Originally Posted by excon

Hello H:

You know what else he'd like????? While you're pulling his head into your business, HUMP his face.

excon

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Yep.

Then what he would really like in return is to be able to hold your head and hump YOUR face, the next time around... because turn around is fair. ;)