My fiancé and I are getting married in October. We would like our sons to be the ringbearers, but they will be 20 months and 7 months. Our flowergirl will be 3 1/2 by then. We will have the flower girl holding our 20 month olds hand down the isle (they are pretty good about following direction and walking together) but what do we do with our 7 month old? Is there anyway we can make it work somehow? Or do I just need to accept the fact that he won't be able to be a ring bearer? Anyone have any suggestions?

7 month old, jr flower girl, someone pushes her in stroller down isle throwing some flowers out.

20month old is questionable. Just be aware there will be meltdowns. It is allot of pressure for a baby of 20moths the flower girl is a good age. I had a 3 year old ring barer and flower girl... it was very cute.

I'm not too concerned about my 20 month old and the 3 1/2 year old flower girl, I'm just wondering if there is a clever/cute way to have my 7 month old in it.

Have one of the brides maids walk down the isle with him. Make him the best man. Very cute!

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

7 month old, jr flower girl, someone pushes her in stroller down isle throwing some flowers out.

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I was thinking the same thing.

It doesn't have to be a stroller, make up some sort of cute cart covered with flowers, to make it more wedding-ey.

Decorated wagons can be cute. A bridesmaid could pull it with the other children walking behind. If the 20m old breaks down, he can go for a ride too.

Congratulations. But I think that a 7-month-old who can't even stand alone yet just isn't going to cut it as a ring bearer. Just leave the honor to your older son.