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  • Jul 26, 2009, 01:45 PM
    gendoc
    Why doesn't my boyfriend want to have sex with me?
    I have recently begun living with my boyfriend of 18 months and although we are both young, healthy, fit people his interest in sex has become almost non-existent. We have a very open and loving relationship and are extremely comfortable talking about our issues. We have discussed our sex life and why he feels the way he does and he assures me that he is still sexually attracted to me but that he just doesn't feel any drive for sex anymore.
    His constant rejection of my sexual advances is affecting myself esteem and I no longer feel desirable.
    What could be causing this loss of libido? Is there anything I can do to help him?
  • Jul 26, 2009, 05:10 PM
    modernromance09

    Get him noxycut.
    Supposedly that's the reason my ex boyfriend has sex with his new girlfriend and didn't with me ha.
  • Jul 26, 2009, 06:01 PM
    s_cianci
    He may be suffering from Erectile Dysfunction or similar disorder and be too embarrassed to discuss it with you. But if that's the case then he should see a doctor. There are treatments available.
  • Jul 26, 2009, 11:43 PM
    jenniepepsi

    Noxycut is a weightloss pill. I don't see how this would help.

    Has there been any major changes in his life other than you moving in? A loss in the family, a move, loss of a job, more bills, etc. anything?

    Depression can be a huge factor in sexual drive.

    Your boyfriend obviously loves you, perhapes if you see a sexual therepist, and talk with them about it?

    But please do not just go to drugs or pills ;)
  • Jul 27, 2009, 01:05 AM
    Gemini54
    Clearly there is something wrong.

    I would suggest that you both need to visit your doctor, firstly to ensure that there is nothing physical which is affecting his libido, and secondly to get a referral to a sex therapist so that you can honestly discuss the reasons for his declining interest and unpack what is happening in the relationship.

    Quote:

    he assures me that he is still sexually attracted to me but that he just doesn't feel any drive for sex anymore
    This statement is an oxymoron - how can he be sexually attracted to you but not feel like having sex? Doesn't make sense!

    Something else is going on - seek professional help and find out what it is.
  • Jul 27, 2009, 02:58 PM
    modernromance09
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jenniepepsi View Post
    noxycut is a weightloss pill. i dont see how this would help.

    has there been any major changes in his life other than you moving in? a loss in the family, a move, loss of a job, more bills, ect. anything?

    depression can be a huge factor in sexual drive.

    your boyfriend obviously loves you, perhapes if you see a sexual therepist, and talk with them about it?

    but please do not just go to drugs or pills ;)

    Does NOXYCUT Have any Negative Side Effects?

    No, unless you’re ultra sensitive to stimulants -- If you are don’t take it. But NOXYCUT has some “Positive Side Effects” of increasing your sex drive, enhancing the Size of ALL Your “Muscles”, and improving your sense of well being and motivation.

    Got that from the official noxycut website.
  • Jul 27, 2009, 03:54 PM
    autumnrainful

    Do you love each other? Has he had sex before? And have you guys intimate in other ways, like oral?
    If he never had sex before, pressure is understandable. If there is a chance you could stay alone in a good private place, like a hotel room, things might get better. You could start from oral sex.
  • Jul 27, 2009, 04:05 PM
    s_cianci
    Quote:

    got that from the official noxycut website
    And you don't think that maybe that's all just a little bit of propaganda to sing the praises of noxycut from a not-so-objective point of view? Wouldn't your doctor or pharmacist probably be a more reliable source of information about a drug rather than the drug's own "official website?"
  • Jul 27, 2009, 04:07 PM
    jenniepepsi
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by modernromance09 View Post
    Does NOXYCUT Have any Negative Side Effects?

    No, unless you’re ultra sensitive to stimulants -- If you are don’t take it. But NOXYCUT has some “Positive Side Effects” of increasing your sex drive, enhancing the Size of ALL Your “Muscles”, and improving your sense of well being and motivation.

    got that from the official noxycut website.

    OK first of all hon, a penis is not a muscle. It is an organ. Whoever told you it was a muscle, was full of it. There aren't muscles, it grows due to an increase in bloodflow.

    Noxycut may help because it does increase bloodflow, and raise your metabolism, which can increase your bloodpressure.

    However, using any type of medication for OFF use, (off use meaning NOT the medications original intent as per the FDA) can be dangerous for your health. And it is not advisable.
  • Jul 27, 2009, 04:11 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by modernromance09 View Post
    Does NOXYCUT Have any Negative Side Effects?

    No, unless you’re ultra sensitive to stimulants -- If you are don’t take it. But NOXYCUT has some “Positive Side Effects” of increasing your sex drive, enhancing the Size of ALL Your “Muscles”, and improving your sense of well being and motivation.

    got that from the official noxycut website.

    Noxycut - WeightLossPills.net

    Noxycut - Is Noxycut the best slimming pill for men? | Slimming Pills Review

    Do not advise people to take medication on this site!
  • Jul 27, 2009, 04:19 PM
    Synnen

    Please stay on topic.

    This is not a question about Noxycut, but about the OPs relationship
  • Jul 27, 2009, 04:20 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Synnen View Post
    Please stay on topic.

    This is not a question about Noxycut, but about the OPs relationship

    Sorry Synn, I just wanted to point out that this drug is not safe and shouldn't be recommended to anyone.

    I'll go back in my corner now. :o
  • Jul 28, 2009, 12:10 AM
    modernromance09

    I was just saying that my ex tried it and said it definitely increased his sex drive and even made him last longer and he's not the type to just make something like that up. But I had no idea this was a dangerous pill so sorry for bringing it up without knowing absolutely everything about it it was just my first thought. But if everything else in your relationship is good then definitely bring him to the doctor that's the only thing you really can do to fix the problem.

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