Hi! I don't even know how to explain this, my friends said that is jealousness, OK I have a friend for life Peachey she introduced us to this site, she help us with anything she can, but what I can't understand is most of us have more than she does, but things don't go as plan, look we live in an undeveloped area in the caribbean her family consist of 11 with a drunk mother and a sister who works her tail off to help them out, the problem is my family can afford certain thing and don't, I have to depend on their PC, her books, her ways of life its like I don't have a life, she wants to be someone in life and everyone follows her, what my family will buy for me is clothes for me to look JQ, but the things I really want they don't buy, like a PC, books and stuff, they said I just want to show off, another thing someone told her to write to the Chicago Sum-Times and Chicago tribune her sister did, they fixed the roads only in her area, my sister wouldn't that to save my life, also the government sent Peachey to an on the job training we all study at the same school with our way-ward teachers, why should she alone be sent they even voted her prefect of the class, what example can she show us, she live in a broken home, she said she is following in her sister footstep she wants to work in a bank or higher, her sister was lucky but look at her sister she is just working for them, yes she is working in the bank in our area that is a very good job, but I doubt Peachey can make it, I don't know what to do I can't do anything right without her. Is this jealousness or just frustrated without her, yes her sister lets me use their PC even though she is not there. What is going on with me. :mad:

It sounds like your very jealous of your friend and this can be dangerous. If she is suppose be your friend for life why do you try to bring her down especially when she tries to help you out by allowing you to use her PC and books.

It doesn't matter what kind of home she came from because I have many friends that came from a broken home but they are somebody today. You can control where you come from but you can overcome it. Btw, I have many drunks in my family. And her family seems to do everything to provide for her to make sure she have everything she needs regardless of their drinking habit--you even said this. And your friend seems to be a very nice person by sharing what she have with you and isn't holding it over your head.

Also, if you need books and a PC why does your family spend all their money on clothes for you in order for you to look GQ? Your family needs to get their priority straight and work on spending their money wisely and buy you the things you need instead of spending it on material things.

Stop dogging your friend out and if you think so little of her then you shouldn't be friends with her. Work on your jealousy if you want to remain friends with her and value her friendship.

Yes I understand what you said but it seems as though she is getting all the luck, what about us, we also try have GOD forgotten us why is everything is going for her, and why shouldn't I mention her broken home, her home is broken everyone knows that her mother is always drunk and cussing them off in front of us.

It isn't her fault that her mother is the way the she is. We can't choose our parents. You speak so poorly of her home but is your home any better?

It might seems like she have a lot of luck but it seems like she is apply herself in order to improve her luck. Sometimes we have to apply ourselve in order to get the things we want and to get the ball rolling.

Take the focus off her and focus on yourself instead. Start applying yourself and maybe things might change for you.

Yes! My home is a lot better, my house is not falling down as her's, I also dress better, look even here when I ask a home-work question I get the round around, when she ask they gave her the ways of doing it and also explaining how they came about the answer, OK our teachers just gave us work and don't explain it but why should she always get an A, since elementary school she is always the brightest, they house always have noise with all those brats so how does she study to get an A, the question we all sent are questions we got wrong, but she get answers quicker than us. What is wrong with me, I am getting more obsessed by the day, I sometime feel to kill her. Am I sick or something.

You need counseling asap and you need to stop being her friend. If you seriously feel like you can kill someone that has been nothing but nice to you then something is wrong.

You stated you have a better home than her, smarter than her, dress better than her, etc but your still jealous--why? Talk to a professional.

I need counseling her whole family needs counseling, do you know what it like going to her home and hearing her drunking mother cussing out all of them even us, but she's the brightest so we gather at her home, but before we arrive there, we all debate if her mother will be drunk, that is the only time they look up to me otherwise its always her, Peachey look at her thread and look at mine look at the difference. I love her and I hate her, I just need to know what to do, follow her or not, I don't know what to do without her. She believe in sex without marriage is wrong, and most of the girls in our class follows her, and she always give an example of her sister miss perfect, my sister went to school with her sister so what my sister got pregnant she has a beautiful daughter, her sister she is working her tail off, you know she behave as though they are perfect, but what do they have ?

Leeann10100 this is Janelle101 we all goes to same school, Peachey introduced us to this site, we all use Peachey PC and this is how you dog her, she don't have anything to give but modesty but that says a lot , so what if she and her sister are virgins, if you want to spread it go ahead but we will not follow you, I saw you when you were leaving her house after using their PC but I didn't know what you up to, so what if her home is in a mess pertaining to her mother, she will always be top up, just take a look at the world today, there are so many abortion clinic why because there are so many unwanted babies Peachey might not have vanity to give us the way you do but she have wisdom, and we will follow her ways, she look at life differntly maybe through her mother and she knows the life she's aiming at, and yes her sister is an example of today women who wants a good life for herself and her family, she put her priority first and her priority is her family, if your family have material things for you to look JQ a PC will also make you look JQ so you wouldn't have to go to her house to dog her, but I will tell you one thing she will always be number 1 pertaining to you. I don't know who may read this but what I can say about Peachey is she never tell us anything wrong pertaing to life and our studies, we all love her ways and she will be a leader, we are hoping she will go into politics so we in this area can be heard and help us. So Leeann go to hell and back I am really annoyed.

Now your dogging her family. You talked about her sister being Miss Perfect but meantwhile your sister is the one that got pregnant.

So what you might have better things then her--you don't have the things you need. You speak so low about her family but meanwhile you go there to use her things--pc, books, etc. Doesn't that makes you a user? Then you got the balls to type all of this about her while using her PC--how cruel? I am surprise she doesn't see what you post about her.

Yes, counseling is order for you but this girl shouldn't be your friend because you befriended her in the worst way.

I am not dogging her family, everyone in our area and in school knows what's going on with her mother this is not private news, as first she were a rebel because she use to ashame, then she made a dramatic change to help out her big sister, and yes her sister is perfect she try her best to keep her head up, even what's going with her she will make any mother proud she has her head on. Look I were not intrested in school until I met Peachey a lot of us had given up especially Leeann10100 because our teachers don't care if we do work or not, when we met Peachey she were determine to make something out of our free school, even if our teacher don't care, and her sister found this site and registered under Peachey name because she knew her sister will be using this site later on, after she passed all her exams she put Peachey into it for help, I didn't mean anything by saying miss perfect that't the way they all called her, I love Peachey I wish I had a sister like hers to guide me in the right direction. This is what I meant.

Janelle nobody say you were dogging your friend it. That post was in reference to the other poster who started this thread.

This is all getting confusing and I really hope you and the OP isn't the same person. You stated Peachy have a membership on this site what is her user name? Also, if you can see what the other girl is writing how come she can't? Did you tell her what her friend is up to?

All of us uses Peachy PC because she is class prefect, she can break down things for us to understand pertaining to school work and life, we are surely not the same person, Peachey is on an on-the-job training by our government for A students, this is the first time the government choose someone in our area I am happy for her but Leeann believe she should be chosen. This is why she is jealous we know and we are angry