His family says he's working in virginia I have his soc. Number and he is court ordered to pay child support here in the state of nc but he hops around so I'm trying to track him myself child support agencys mean well but it can take them awhile very heavy caseloads

Yeah sorry to hear that but sounds like if he hops around A LOT it's harder for the "welfare system to find him". Sounds similar to a guy i use to date who would hop from state to state to avoid c.s. ontop of claiming exempt on his w2s so he was "unfound" til they found him. It also varies from state to state. But good luck hun :)

He could be working under the table of living off a new girlfriend. It may be next to impossible to track him down. Keep the court informed and keep asking to have him found.
It may be something that never gets resolved but keep on top of it with court anyway.

If his family knows that he is in Virginia have you passed that information on to your case worker in the child support offices.
The interesting part of it all is that we can provide them good information that will help our situation. If you have any relationship with his family attempt to get more information from them and pass it on to your case worker so that they have assistance in tracking him down.