I really need help. There was this boy who I became really close with, he immediately told my friend he liked me, after speaking to him we got on really well and soon we were texting each other all the time. My feelings for him started to grow. Problem was about 4 months ago he split up with his girlfriend. But months on, after not speaking to me for a while he admitted he really liked me and thought that me and him could give things a go. Time passed by and still nothing had happened he is a really shy boy and I'm shy too. He told me hed never let the chance pass. Then a couple of weeks later I got another text saying he really likes me but has problems to sort after going onto telling me these problems but said that we definitely were going to give things a go. But still a month on nothing has happened. He doesn't text me anymore now even although I see him occasionally and his best friend told me he liked me but he thinks he is not ready for a relationship. I don't know what to do anymore... does he still like me ? Or what's going on ?

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Originally Posted by cf_chz

I dont know what to do anymore... does he stil like me ? or whats going on ?

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He may still like you but not enough to overcome his recent break up. Heard about rebound? Give it a time but don't pin your hope. When the person says "I'm not ready" then don't push it. You will just end up frustrated.

Honestly, who really knows if he likes you? I'm not sure if anybody on this site can answer that. I think you need to talk to him yourself. It seems like he's just leading you on, getting your hopes up, and then crushing your hope like a bug (maybe not intentionally). I think it would do you a lot of good to just move on and get over him.

Since the both of you are shy it is hard for the two of you to communication directly to each other. The two of you have to go through another person in order to know what the other person is thinking--not good.

However, his friend told you he doesn't want a relationship at the moment and his actions prove that.

Time for you to move on. No since in being stuck over someone who isn't over their past anyway.