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  • Jul 22, 2009, 04:35 PM
    MissDramaQueen
    Liking 2 Guys ?
    Okay really think this one guy. i'll can him brandon. (Not really name) i
    meet him in the begining of the school year. i have really began to like
    him. i think he might like me too. but then there is this other guy, i'll
    call him Anthony (not really name) he is my BFF's ex boyfriend. she broke
    up with him for an other guy. My Best friend doesnt know i like him. i am
    crazy about anthony too. i want to ask one of them out but i dont know who. i
    dont want my best friend to be mad at me for asking out anthony but i also
    dont want to reck Me and Brandon's friendship. what should i do ??:confused:
  • Jul 22, 2009, 04:56 PM
    liz28

    Before you go after your best friends ex you need to get the OK from her. It is better to ask her if you respect the friendship you share with her.

    Now if you don't want to ruin the friendship you share with Brandon then your better off finding someone else because your taking the risk by crossing the lines of being just friends.
  • Jul 22, 2009, 04:56 PM
    prttynpnk1105
    You shouldn't pursue Brandon because I really don't think you BFF is going to be okay with you dating her ex. I don't think a guy is worth losing your BFF.
  • Jul 22, 2009, 07:49 PM
    N0help4u
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by prttynpnk1105 View Post
    You shouldn't pursue Brandon because I really don't think you BFF is going to be okay with you dating her ex. I don't think a guy is worth losing your BFF.
    Its Anthony that is the BF old BF
  • Jul 22, 2009, 08:20 PM
    MissDramaQueen

    He is her ex boyfriend.
  • Jul 23, 2009, 03:51 AM
    N0help4u

    Yeah
    Anthony is your best friends old (ex) boyfriend

    Do you know why they broke up?
    Would she care if you started seeing him?

    I think if you did start seeing him then it could jepordize your relatiionship with Brandon.
    If you think that Brandon is more interested then maybe you should just either keep them both as friends and nothing more or go with Brandon
  • Jul 24, 2009, 10:17 PM
    HelpinHere

    I'll just say that it is natural, and normal to like two guys. However, you need to pick ONE of them.

    I would recommend, if your BFF is okay with it, her ex. That way, the first guy could stay friends, whereas if it didn't work it could be akward between you two.

    However, I do not know the situation very well.

    If I did, I would recommend thinking deep inside yourself and deciding which one you like more. If you don't know, a simple way to decide would be:
    They are both standing in front of a gunman, and he only kills the one you don't choose to save, which do you choose?
    Don't think about it, just who first popped into your mind reading that?
  • Jul 25, 2009, 04:31 PM
    MissDramaQueen

    She broke up with him for an other guy she liked. But she got mad at her lat friend that asked him out after she broke up with him.
  • Jul 25, 2009, 04:56 PM
    liz28

    If she got mad because her other friend ask him out what makes you think she won't get mad you? If you value your friendship with her then don't go after him. Sometimes your friend ex is off limits.
  • Jul 25, 2009, 05:00 PM
    liz28
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by FALICIA View Post
    tgvyiyfvtyygvgvyu
    What? Not another troll!
  • Jul 25, 2009, 06:55 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by liz28 View Post
    What? Not another troll!


    I don't think she's a troll - in fact, this is the most intelligent post she's made. :D
  • Jul 26, 2009, 04:50 PM
    MissDramaQueen
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by liz28 View Post
    What? Not another troll!
    Who me ?:confused:
  • Jul 26, 2009, 06:12 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by MissDramaQueen View Post
    Who me ?:confused:

    You know you're a troll when being called a troll doesn't insult you -
  • Jul 26, 2009, 06:42 PM
    liz28
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by MissDramaQueen View Post
    Who me ?:confused:
    No I was not calling you a troll. I was calling another member a troll because of what he or she posted but that member post got deleted. Sorry for the confusion. :-)
  • Jul 26, 2009, 07:21 PM
    MissDramaQueen
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by liz28 View Post
    No I was not calling you a troll. I was calling another member a troll because of what he or she posted but that member post got deleted. Sorry for the confusion. :-)
    Oh okay I got confused.

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